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He left today :(

Posted by

Scottysbaby87

on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:12 PM

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About a month ago I wrote a post about my hubby will be deploying soon well he left today...I forgot how emotionally and physically hard it is with out him here. Every time I go outside I keep thinking he is gonna open that door asnd ask "What are ya doin now" . Silly I know. But I miss him so much and It hasnt been a full day yet. Kids miss him like crazy already too. They keep asking "Where's daddy at " and "is daddy home yet" I have no flipping clue how I did this last time but it seems harder the second time around. And I keep thinking about how I treated him these past couple weeks (we argued alot over silly things) and I regret it so much. I hope he knows I love him no matter what and he will always be my one and only. He is such a great dad and husband. I'm sry I just had to get this off my chest. I hope this next year flys by.

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Scottysbaby87

on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:12 PM

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chair.r13

on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:14 PM

You are so much stronger than I am. Good luck, I hope it get's better for you!

Forget-me-not

on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:14 PM

I'm sorry, I know it's hard. My husband works out of state and we see him very little. How long is he gone for?

Jennifer, Crunchy Student Midwife, Wife and mother to Hannah 13, Abby 8 and Liam born June 15 2009

Scottysbaby87

on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:15 PM

Quoting Forget-me-not:

I'm sorry, I know it's hard. My husband works out of state and we see him very little. How long is he gone for?

He will be gone for a year but they were talking about extending it.

sent4u5041

Ashley on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:18 PM

Sorry Momma. I know how you feel. My dh deployed for 15 months in 07 and 08. It was the hardest thing. Just stay busy and hoping for his safe return!

xksmommy88

Silver Member on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:19 PM

sorry.. wishing him a safe return.!

My little Family:)
Hubby&I Xander (5) Kaedan (2)

Ktez2002

Silver Member on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:21 PM

good luck

chais_wifey

Gold Member on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:21 PM

I know how you feel, hubby did a 15 month deployment and is now on a 12 month unaccompanied tour. Hope your year goes by fast.

Lvlyshawn

on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:25 PM

My heart goes out to you!! I will be experiencing my second deployment next year. They just put out the schudule and he will be in the field for a least one week every month until he leaves. The military life is hard.

AJmum

on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:26 PM

Oh hunny, it's hard. It does get better, I know it's so hard now but when you get into your routine But tonight, get a pint of ben and jerry's sit on the couch and watch the girliest TV you can find. And if that lasts a few days so be it. You have until next year to lose that weight! lol

Scottysbaby87

on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:28 PM

Quoting AJmum:

Oh hunny, it's hard. It does get better, I know it's so hard now but when you get into your routine But tonight, get a pint of ben and jerry's sit on the couch and watch the girliest TV you can find. And if that lasts a few days so be it. You have until next year to lose that weight! lol

I've been indulging in chocolate all day....I guess its time to turn on the tv now...lol