My daughter is 3 years old, still in diapers, on the bottle and sleeping in a crib.

[sondamom0828]

I won't tell you anything else for right now.  So, does that make me a lazy or bad mother?

[IanAndMillasMom]

While I don't know you, I would say no.  Did someone tell you that you were?

[Kizbee]

It makes you a mom who makes different choices than I do.  Doesn't make you lazy or bad.

[heidi37217]

No 2 children are alike. She will do these things when she is ready. My son still sucks his thumb, he is 5.

[Sagely]

Nope.  And if she's still on the bottle and in diapers, you're not lazy.

I can't WAIT till my DD's on to potty training...THAT'S when I get to be lazy!

[Lvlyshawn]

There are many diffrent reasons a 3 year old is doing those things. Only you know what is best for your child.

[gobimom]

I think it depends on the child...if it is because of parent convenience then yes you are lazy.  If it is because your child has a health/developmental delay then no it does not make you a lazy mother. 

[MissiHampt]

If you want people to answer this without other info, you should take her picture off your avatar :-)  I think you must be doing the best you can do and should be proud of whatever accomplishments you have made with her.  You have a happy, smiling daughter....so no, based on THAT, you must not be a bad mother.

[diane-b]

No............

[Trinity0820]

 From the picture on your avatar, I would say no.. she looks as if she has a learning disabilty... (please oh please do not take that as an attack, it just looks that way... If im wrong I am sorry!)

And even if not, I still say no... Because my dd will be on her baba nad sleeping in her crib until shes old enough to sleep well in a toddler bed.

[Lesli310]

is there something wrong with her? the fact that you said I won't tell you anything else makes me think theres more to it.