how do you treat people this way?!?!

[Katharine1229]

I have been reading so many posts...not only tonight...but i think I just got sent over the edge. How do you 'miss perfect' mamas just BASH people all the time? Do you do this in real life too? Kicking people when they are down? I see posts about woman being abused who have children around....and when woman are asking for help....the 'miss perfects' tell them that any abuse their children are witnessing are THEIR FAULT. No...its not...its the fault of the abuser and you have no idea how hard it is to get out of that situation....these woman already feel horrible enough about their children seeing these things...so they don't need you chiming in. Woman are on here talking about not being able to trust people and being upset about it.....and other woman are commenting that its that woman's fault in the first place for trusting the person. Someone else is asking for help with diciplin and venting about a day....and people reading it are upset about using a phrase about a certain type of behavoir. It even gets as horrible as people posting about a loved one passing away and the 'miss perfects' not believing them because there is no 'proof'.

Woman for the most part on here post for advice, general questions, to get support, or just to vent. After telling a story...some will be asking a question. Their intention is probably for you to answer the question, or just give support, or in general voice your opinion. Why pick apart little parts of a story in order to trash it? When you see that the poster is obviously upset or hurt why try to turn things back around on them so bluntly? Do you really think its going to help? If you don't care to help them...why are you even answering at all? Just to get your meanness out for the day???

[twinmamaof3]

Itis really sad, it is.  If my op is negative I will word it to sound nicely?  If that makes sense, ut honestly I dont think I have ever been mean.  I hope not anyways.