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desperatly need advise

Posted by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 11:35 PM
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Im going to my SIL wedding on saturday , I havent seen my MIL ( aka bitch in law ) or other sister in law ( aka the heffer) in two years. They reffer to my son as a bastart child and say hes not my husbands son. We had been married for years and hes a spitting image of him. They allso reffer to me as the fat moose ( not fat by the way a little heavy but not fat) anways. how and i supposed to act around them ? they havent seen my son since he was 3 months old hes 27 monts now ! seriously do I act like my shit doesnt stink ? ignore them ? everytime they seem me when Im running they flip me off screams at me out the window that im a whore ! its really bad ! Any advice?  oh and I have to go to the wedding I like the other sister and she begged us to go .

Posted by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 11:35 PM
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charmgirl
by Bronze Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 12:03 AM

So I wouldnt say a damn thing to them. They dont deserve the time of day, Are they in high school still for God's sake?! If you happen to have eye contact just smile. lol maybe even an evil little smile because you know your better than them!!!

nebcutie
by Gold Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 12:07 AM

agree

Quoting charmgirl:

So I wouldnt say a damn thing to them. They dont deserve the time of day, Are they in high school still for God's sake?! If you happen to have eye contact just smile. lol maybe even an evil little smile because you know your better than them!!!


MixedCooke
by Ruby Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 4:53 AM

JUST BE CIVIL and remember whose day it is.  Just ignore anything they say and just smile and walk away.

LuvmySFSGT
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 4:57 AM

Stay classy and don't stoop to their level.

Jan0609momma
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 4:57 AM

I would try to act civil and if it gets to bad just give her your blessings and leave because you don't want her idiot mother to make a scene at her wedding

SammySJ99
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 5:02 AM

I would go, but only with the agreement (with the hubby) that FIRST rude remark I here we leave... Meaning both of us. Why isnt your husband telling his family to pull the sticks out the ars?

DejaRea
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 5:02 AM


Quoting Jan0609momma:

I would try to act civil and if it gets to bad just give her your blessings and leave because you don't want her idiot mother to make a scene at her wedding


This is really the best you can do... Let your favorite know you might have to dip out early to avoid a scene, but remember she might be asking you to come to keep the evil mother off her own back for her special day.

...You could always spike MIL's drink early in the game and let her pass out somewhere while the rest of you party.

ryansmommy07
by Silver Member on Nov. 26, 2009 at 12:58 AM

He has thats why we havent seen them or talked to his bitch of a mother  or other sister in two years he told them that they do not exsist anymore. were oly going because he gets along with the oldest sister still

ryansmommy07
by Silver Member on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:00 AM


Quoting DejaRea:

 

Quoting Jan0609momma:

I would try to act civil and if it gets to bad just give her your blessings and leave because you don't want her idiot mother to make a scene at her wedding


This is really the best you can do... Let your favorite know you might have to dip out early to avoid a scene, but remember she might be asking you to come to keep the evil mother off her own back for her special day.

...You could always spike MIL's drink early in the game and let her pass out somewhere while the rest of you party.

I'd love to do more than just spike her drink ! His oldest sister the ones thats getting married promised me that they would be on there best behavior. I still dont trust the bitch or heffer because she cant keep her eye on them the whole time !

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