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I dont know what to do

Posted by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 6:56 AM
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My jobs sucks and I cant seem to find a new one i have applied everywhere... I dont know how long my day care will let me bring my kids there I owe about 400 I bring all that i have each week after i buy diapers and gas but I cant pay any of my bills.... Im ignoring progressive b.c i know they will just yell at me. I am waiting to see if i can get the State to pay for my day care when Im at school but its been week or two and i havent heard anything.. I just want something better than serving and i dont graduate till aug.... I just dont know what to do.... I cant even afford christmas this year, my parents bought my kids their gifts b.c im that broke


Im in tears right now b.c i dont know what to do.


I just seem to fail at life.

Posted by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 6:56 AM
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Bianca008
by Silver Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:05 AM

You are doing the best you can . That's all you can do . Be proud of who you are and what you have accomplished up until now . I hope you hear something soon good luck !

Swtmama62205
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:10 AM

I know it seems hard now hun.  And it is hard.  But hang in there.  It will not be like this forever.  You're going to school and when you graduate you will have already made the step to bettering your life.  It won't be like this forever.  It wont!

CarolynS898
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:13 AM

I dont know if i will have to drop out b.c I cant pay the day care and the state wont tell me if i got the day care credit... I need it and they are running me around.

Quoting Swtmama62205:

I know it seems hard now hun.  And it is hard.  But hang in there.  It will not be like this forever.  You're going to school and when you graduate you will have already made the step to bettering your life.  It won't be like this forever.  It wont!


momaof8
by Gold Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:18 AM

You need to take any job and waitressing is cash up front right away. So stop being picky.

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CarolynS898
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:21 AM

Im not being pickey i have applied everywhere all the resturants the movie theaters kroger meijers ups fedex costco target walmart EVERYWHERE but thank you for your judgement

Quoting momaof8:

You need to take any job and waitressing is cash up front right away. So stop being picky.


Swtmama62205
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:42 AM

Dont listen to the rude mom below me

Have you tried Calling your caseworker?  Try calling her today and tell her your son is about to get kicked out of daycare because of how much you owe.  Have you talked to the daycare and told them that you are simply waiting to hear back from your caseworker?  I am sure they will try to work with you.  Do not quit school hang in there.  Your doing what is best.  Sneak your kid in your purse if you have to lol

Quoting CarolynS898:

I dont know if i will have to drop out b.c I cant pay the day care and the state wont tell me if i got the day care credit... I need it and they are running me around.

Quoting Swtmama62205:

I know it seems hard now hun.  And it is hard.  But hang in there.  It will not be like this forever.  You're going to school and when you graduate you will have already made the step to bettering your life.  It won't be like this forever.  It wont!



chair.r13
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:50 AM

I got this advice from my SIL: bug the crap out of your caseworker! Call everyday, twice a day even! Always be super polite but make them understand the severity of your situation. Please don't quite school, it's a major thing that you're even in school, so be proud of yourself! I'm proud of you and I don't even know you lol.

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