my preganancy test that is. I've got the Mirena and I'm pregnant. I've got an appointment made for Tuesday afternoon to see if its eptopic or not. I swear to god birth control just doesn't work for me considering that my older children are pill babies. What am I gonna do? I'm so scared to tell my DH. He's gonna try to talk me into an abortion and while I'm pro-choice it's just not a choice I could make for myself. God I'm so confused. I know we can't afford another baby right now but I can't just push this baby away.
AHHHHHHHH GRRRRRRRR AHHHHHHHH
I'm a baby wearing, co sleeping, organic buying, ERF, had to formula feed cause I never created milk hippie momma of a wonderful energetic 4yr old girl, Athena, a rollie pollie 8 month old boy, Noah, and I'm married to a jazz musican that rocks my world and just happens to be the best dad and stepdad ever, Trevor. I won't tell you how to rasie your kids if you don't tell me how to raise mine.
I don't have any advice, just wanted to wish you good luck!
This baby happened for a reason....
Megin
"A mother understands what a child does not say."
it makes me sad to say this but i know other women on the same iud and they've gotten pregnant but when you go to get it removed it usually kills the baby
some people are MEANT to have children, congrats-you are one of them!
i know you're afraid to tell your husband, but he should definitely understand why you wouldn't want an abortion.
talk to him though, maybe he'll surprise you.
I'm sorry mama:(...but it will work out..this is why i do not trust any form of hormonal bc..but..I think it happened for a reason..
Absolutly they will! That's the funny thing about life. And good for you for not letting him change your mind on something that is importante to you OP. I'm all for BC, but every baby that finds it's way to this earth is a blessing. GL and congratulations, even if you don't want them quite yet!
Quoting rowansmum:
keep your chin up, things tend to work themselves out! I couldnt abort either (have faced the decision twice now) Good luck!
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- Athenas_mom
on Nov. 25, 2009 at 9:45 AM