I was just talkin to a fellow mom and I made the statement "my DH doesn't treat me any different than he did when I was his GF" and its true.For whatever reason I thought he would change once we got married but it didn't happen I feel no more secure as his wife than i did his GF,he talks to me the same I think he even stills see me the same I don't think he feels like its much difference. I instantly changed when we got married,I loved him more,I held him to higher standards than just a BF, I felt a greater oblligation to him I felt more comitted.So my question is: Is there a difference? Do you treat your DH differently since you guys married?Does he treat you differently?If there are changes what have they been???
I FEEL DIFFERENTLY SINCE MY HUBBY AND I GOT MARRIED A YEAR AND A HALF AGO BECAUSE WE ARE COMMITTED NOW IN MARRIAGE, HOWEVER WE WERE VERY COMMITTED TO EACHOTHER BEFORE SO NOTHING REALLY SEEMS DIFFERENT. WE STILL TREAT EACHOTHER THE SAME WAY AND I DONT REALLY NOTICE ANYTHING DIFFERENT THAN BEFORE WE MARRIED.
no things didnt change but we lived together for 2 years before we got married..i cooked cleaned rubbed his back and did pretty much everything a wife would do..some say "why buy the cow if you get the milk for free" but i think "why buy the car without a test drive". things are still the same..well except we have a kid now so the sex has to be a little more discreet lol.
We treat and look at each other the exact same. The only difference for us is a higher degree of security (something we both love to have) and also, I got pretty jewelry. lol My hubs is my best friend and we still do goofball stuff together, hang out, and pretty much just be kids when we get the chance. Of course, we hang out with our son and get to be kids, too. Just last night, we were all running around in circles in my DS's bedroom, all trying to get dizzy. lol That's what life's all about it, isn't it?
I totally agree with you! I'm a weirdo in that I'll be encouraging my son (and future children) to live in sin for at LEAST 8 months prior to tying the knot. I'd like to see a year, but 8 months at the minimum. Sometimes, people DO change when you live together.. and sometimes, that change ISN'T for the best. Of course, there are always exceptions. My mom's best friend met her husband four days after christmas and they were married by the end of January. lol They're PERFECT for each other and blissfully happy... have been for some years, now. But... why take a chance when you don't have to, right?
Quoting prego7386:
no things didnt change but we lived together for 2 years before we got married..i cooked cleaned rubbed his back and did pretty much everything a wife would do..some say "why buy the cow if you get the milk for free" but i think "why buy the car without a test drive". things are still the same..well except we have a kid now so the sex has to be a little more discreet lol.
Thats i would like life to be about,but I am really happy that you have that happpiness
Quoting lyranightshade:
We treat and look at each other the exact same. The only difference for us is a higher degree of security (something we both love to have) and also, I got pretty jewelry. lol My hubs is my best friend and we still do goofball stuff together, hang out, and pretty much just be kids when we get the chance. Of course, we hang out with our son and get to be kids, too. Just last night, we were all running around in circles in my DS's bedroom, all trying to get dizzy. lol That's what life's all about it, isn't it?
Ashley's Husband Made it Home From a Deployment in Iraq - And Then Tragedy Struck
- MrsEarls
on Nov. 25, 2009 at 11:06 AM