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Are you Pro-life and anti-Pa? Spin off

Posted by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 3:44 PM
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Another post got me thinking... someone said that there are a lot of pro-lifers on here that also scream the loudest about people being on public assistance, leading some here to believe that their main concern is the unborn life and not how they are cared for after they've been born. Honestly, I can't keep track of names on different posts and who says what on each post, but I was curious. If you ARE pro-life and anti-pa, why? If you think all women should, and I quote a poster from the post this is a spin off of, 'woman up' and just have the child you created, what if they've not got the financial stability or support they need to raise a child? Please don't respond with 'they should have kept their legs closed'. Sometimes, true accidents do happen. We can't deny that and I think it's entirely unfair to say that poor people should be celibate.

Posted by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 3:44 PM
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taias_ma
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 3:45 PM

I don't know for a fact, but I think the women that tell women to go ahead and have the baby are also telling them to give it up for adoption...I could be wrong tho... sorry if I am

mistie900
by Platinum Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 3:46 PM

LMFAO!!! But yeah I am pro-choice and pro-PA

Quoting lyranightshade:

Another post got me thinking... someone said that there are a lot of pro-lifers on here that also scream the loudest about people being on public assistance, leading some here to believe that their main concern is the unborn life and not how they are cared for after they've been born. Honestly, I can't keep track of names on different posts and who says what on each post, but I was curious. If you ARE pro-life and anti-pa, why? If you think all women should, and I quote a poster from the post this is a spin off of, 'woman up' and just have the child you created, what if they've not got the financial stability or support they need to raise a child? Please don't respond with 'they should have kept their legs closed'. Sometimes, true accidents do happen. We can't deny that and I think it's entirely unfair to say that poor people should be celibate.


lyranightshade
by Ruby Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 3:59 PM

No other replies? Wow. Okay.

lyranightshade
by Ruby Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 4:00 PM

Bump!

lyranightshade
by Ruby Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:52 PM

Bump. I'm trying this post again, hours later, to see if a new group of online women will answer.

jumpingmommy
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:56 PM

i am prolife and pro pa

Lillymygirl
by Silver Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 9:03 PM

  I am Pro-Life in fact very pro-Life. I  want abortion to be illegal . I also want women to be supported and respected. Unfortunately many of the pro-life organizations don't support women . They are against Birth control choices and against welfare assistance. This is just what I have observed in my own life experiences.

lyranightshade
by Ruby Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 9:22 PM

Why do you want it to be illegal? And why do you think many pro-life people don't support women OR public assistance?

Quoting Lillymygirl:

  I am Pro-Life in fact very pro-Life. I  want abortion to be illegal . I also want women to be supported and respected. Unfortunately many of the pro-life organizations don't support women . They are against Birth control choices and against welfare assistance. This is just what I have observed in my own life experiences.


Luchia1980
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 9:24 PM

im pro life and i think that getting assistance is just fine if the person needs it.

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