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When is it not cool to let your mom give you kisses?

Posted by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:26 PM
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Isn't it sad that our kids go through stages where they are embarrassed for us to love on them?  I was just thinking about that when I was looking through my pics just now.  My teen boys never let me kiss on them anymore and they really don't want me to hug them either.  Don't they realize they are still my babies?

I hope they get past that stage someday and realize it is okay to let your mom kiss you.

Posted by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:26 PM
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kenziedawnmom
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:28 PM

I have found out that its when they are with their friends lol Love the pic by the way .lol

isra1986
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:29 PM

Lol! I am not sure about that one! My mom still hugs and kisses her mom, but my sister and I don't hug and kiss her. Our ages are 65, 41, 23 and 22.

myfoursonsks
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:31 PM

I don't hug or kiss my mom...but, my babies better hug and kiss me dangit!

Quoting isra1986:

Lol! I am not sure about that one! My mom still hugs and kisses her mom, but my sister and I don't hug and kiss her. Our ages are 65, 41, 23 and 22.


Trinity0820
by Silver Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:31 PM

I still let my mom, I am 21 and have two babies of my own..  

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SeductiveMomma
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:33 PM

 Lol I love this picture of you and your son!! lol

 


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myfoursonsks
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:33 PM

They won't let me do it at home.  They would die if I did it in front of their friends.  Well, I could probably get away with it if they were in front of a girl friend because a girl would be more likely to get on to them for being mean to their mom.

Quoting kenziedawnmom:

I have found out that its when they are with their friends lol Love the pic by the way .lol


Humboldt0608
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:34 PM

awwww.... I'm sorry. I'm a long way from my boys ever hitting that stage and hopefully they never will. I'm 24 and my parents still give me hugs and kisses. Hopefully my kids will let me smother them until the day I die.

samthecat001
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:36 PM

i dojnt know.  so far so good.. my daughter is almost 17 years old and she still kisses me in public. and holds my hand a lot.  we even ***gasp*** kiss on the lips.
and my son is only 6 (on Dec 1) so we are all over each other still. lol

 


 




 
 
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serioussifL
by Platinum Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:36 PM

from about 6th grade to 10th grade, I didnt want my mom to kiss me in public. Or hold my hand. Or stand outside and wave goodbye as I got on the schoolbus.

But Im proud shes my mama and Im sooo over that. I still give my mom hugs and kisses.

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StrayMom
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 7:36 PM

My son went through this phase when he was seven of no kissing/touching.  I think its always wrong to force touching on a kid when they don't want to be touched so it broke my heart but I respected his wishes.

When he turned 9, he flipped back, and hugs and kisses me goodnight still today (he is 10 now).

He has justified to himself that its ok because I am a "girl"...he pulls back a bit from his Dad still because in HIS words "we are men!"  Men shake hands, or something.

I have never told him its NOT manly to hug...he has come up with this on his own.  His Dad will sneak a hug in whenever he can, but again, I won't force him.

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