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SAHM, I Have a Question?

Posted by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:06 PM
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Question: How Often Are You Actually Watching Your Children?

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24/7 They are never out of my site.

I check on them every 10-20 minutes

Every 30 minutes

Every hour

They are pretty indenpendent, so whenever I feel the need


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Total Votes: 55

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How many of you watch your child(ren) 24/7? I put a poll so everybody can be honest. Thanks

I am not trying to judge, I am just curious.

Posted by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:06 PM
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snoopy21276
by Gold Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:08 PM

alot obviously will depend on the age of the child.. i have a 4 and 5 year old.. with them i check every 10 minutes and depending on the activity. ( say watching a movie then a half hour or as needed) Now my nephew i care for during school hours, constantly. .he isn't out of my sight :) He is 12 months

grantsmommy23
by Bronze Member on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:08 PM

I put every 10-20 minutes because it is impossible to have them in your sights 24/7.  I do go to the bathroom by myself you know. lol  My son is three and yes he plays by himself in his room sometimes, but I always peak in every so often when he is alone.  Most of the time though, I am with him playing or in the same room.  Each day is different so it just depends.

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by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:10 PM

2 of mine are 19 ,and 17 so them whenever .LOL Now my 3 y/o i do good to even go pee without her ... LOL  

2punks
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:11 PM

 My kids are 5 and 3.  They can be independent, but they also love to fight and tear up the house.  It's actually quite amazing how much damage they can do in 10 minutes when they work together.  Needless to say, housework often falls by the wayside because all I do is go from one room to the next cleaning up whatever disaster they've left behind.  They are stinkers, but I love 'em!!  :D

RiverPhenix
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:11 PM

Ditto here. My son is 3 and my daughter 1 1/2. If they are playing in my son's room quietly I check ever so often but if they are hootin and hollarin then it is more often to make sure they aren't doing acrobatics from the ceiling trying to kill themselves. LOL

Quoting grantsmommy23:

I put every 10-20 minutes because it is impossible to have them in your sights 24/7.  I do go to the bathroom by myself you know. lol  My son is three and yes he plays by himself in his room sometimes, but I always peak in every so often when he is alone.  Most of the time though, I am with him playing or in the same room.  Each day is different so it just depends.



imechard
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:12 PM

I can't vote, because nothing matches with what I do. I have about three 30 minute periods a day where I watch them very limited. When I do chores, when I shower and clean the bathroom and when I cook lunch. Other than that, I do not WATCH them, I do stuff with them. Which causes me to be with them and supervise them, but my intend is not to watch them, it is to do stuff with them.

MomTo2Boys2526
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:13 PM

I have a 5 year old, a 2 year old and a 1 year old..I sometimes have them play in their room so I can either have some quiet, clean or do something for myself

But usually they are shoved up my butt regardless lol so usually I have them with me all the time!













AngelicaRenee
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:14 PM

My son is 26 months and is starting to be a little less clingy. He used to be right by my side constantly. i couldn't even go into the bathroom without him. But now he's becoming a little more independent and he likes to play in his room for 20-30 minutes and he HAS to have the door closed cause he gets embarrassed if we catch him playing sometimes. lol. It's cute. I check on him every so often, depends on what sounds are coming out of his room. lol. But other than that he's always in the same room as me.

Paesana82
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:14 PM

I put 10-20 min, but it's def more than that but less than 24/7....no one can have their eyes on their kids every second of every day.

My kids are little, my oldest isn't even 3 and my DD is 16mo....so they require a lot of watching. If I didn't there would be trouble.

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imthatgirl728
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 8:14 PM

24/7...I actually sit on them, it makes it easier.

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