my heart and my head.... what one to listen to..???

[ariesp19]

my heart says i want one more child... i ahve two boys, we live comfortably......

my head says why push our luck??? says we are comfortable now, why risk stretching our budget

my heart says i want to be prego one more time... hold a baby one more time...

my head says 'what if, god forbid, something happend to hubs.... id have to raise 3 kids myself'

there are more... but my point is, what do i listen to?? my heart, or my head??

plseas.... at least bump

edit.... the reason we have to decide now, is that i cant use any hormonal bc... i just got the iud taken out, causeing too many issues.... my dr has informed me, NO MORE hormonal bc....

and i cant really use condoms, cause of alergies, and the ones we 'can' use tend to break on us

so... we are thinking, give it a year, see what happends, and if nothing happends, then he will get snipped...

cause right now, im just not ready to do anything perminent.... ya know??

[rayzensun]

heart

we can adapt to anything  

[Mrs.W512]

 I say if you know in your heart you would really love another then go for it if you guys can afford it

[jenniepepsi]

if you are financially capable, and your heart yearns for it, i say GO FOR IT. if you dont, you may regret it later.

[simplee_me]

Me, I'm a "head" girl.

You have to do what it is that you will be most happy with in the long run...

[mommasbabies77]

I think the idea would be to get the head and the heart working together because both make very valid points. Bump.

[JulyBabies]

I hate that I am so practical, but I would listen to my head. You have been given two miracles already.

[Amy4045]

Heart! 

[briansmommy7143]

I agree.

Quoting rayzensun:

heart

we can adapt to anything  

[hisbabybat]

 as long as you guys can afford it, I'd say heart, 3 isn't anything too crazy ;)

what does hubbs think?

[ariesp19]

Quoting hisbabybat:

 as long as you guys can afford it, I'd say heart, 3 isn't anything too crazy ;)

what does hubbs think?

same issues as me.... his heart would like another, but his head says no... but his head says no, cause he wants me back at work, lol..... not sure why, we are doing fine, lol