So i have a few friends who have been having all these men problems and i just dont get it!! if he isnt treating you right, then why stay with him???? it doesnt make sense to me. And so of course im only hearing their side, and its not always the guys fault!! My husband always tells me about myself when i'm acting like a whinny naggy bitch, and i think everyone needs to hear it sometimes because we may not see what we're doing wrong.
So if you r having man/girl problems(cant keep one, they keep cheating on you, always breaking uo and getting back together etc), tell me your story and problem and lets see if i can help. but im going to be brutally honest, so if you cant take it, then dont ask for it!!
Ok, so I just found out my husband has been raping my 14 yo daughter for the past year and a half. I was under the impression that this was my soul mate. We had been together for seven years and married for three. We had a very active sex life and didn't argue much about anything. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how I was his best friend. My kids all called him daddy and I did my best to try to show him how much I appreciated his hard work for our family. He always had clean clothes, a hot meal and quiet time when he came home from work. So where do you think I fucked up and why did my baby have to pay for it??? Seriously? I'd like to know.
Exactly. And most women dont understand that. You need to just sit back and be patient because desperation is not attractive! lol GOOD LUCK!!
Quoting jenn31:lol girl, I could write a book. Well in a nutshell. I get asked out a lot, but can't keep a man. So I just don't bother anymore, If God wants it to be...it will.
Well thats completely different. You didnt do anything to cause that, he is just sick! I am sorry you went through this and i wish you and your family the best! ND I hope he is not still around because he will just continue to do, and then it will have been your fault. But you had no way of knowing. I know its easier said the done, but you cant blame yourself. Just be there and be strong for your daughter and your other kids. Good luck hun!
Quoting TinaTay:Ok, so I just found out my husband has been raping my 14 yo daughter for the past year and a half. I was under the impression that this was my soul mate. We had been together for seven years and married for three. We had a very active sex life and didn't argue much about anything. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how I was his best friend. My kids all called him daddy and I did my best to try to show him how much I appreciated his hard work for our family. He always had clean clothes, a hot meal and quiet time when he came home from work. So where do you think I fucked up and why did my baby have to pay for it??? Seriously? I'd like to know.
omfg. That is so horrible. :( *hugs*
Quoting TinaTay:
Ok, so I just found out my husband has been raping my 14 yo daughter for the past year and a half. I was under the impression that this was my soul mate. We had been together for seven years and married for three. We had a very active sex life and didn't argue much about anything. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how I was his best friend. My kids all called him daddy and I did my best to try to show him how much I appreciated his hard work for our family. He always had clean clothes, a hot meal and quiet time when he came home from work. So where do you think I fucked up and why did my baby have to pay for it??? Seriously? I'd like to know.
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My god. I don't think OP was ready for this! My prayers to your daughter. Where is your husband now?
Quoting TinaTay:
Ok, so I just found out my husband has been raping my 14 yo daughter for the past year and a half. I was under the impression that this was my soul mate. We had been together for seven years and married for three. We had a very active sex life and didn't argue much about anything. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how I was his best friend. My kids all called him daddy and I did my best to try to show him how much I appreciated his hard work for our family. He always had clean clothes, a hot meal and quiet time when he came home from work. So where do you think I fucked up and why did my baby have to pay for it??? Seriously? I'd like to know.
WOW! just WOW! 
a year and a half you say? WOW!
Quoting TinaTay:
Ok, so I just found out my husband has been raping my 14 yo daughter for the past year and a half. I was under the impression that this was my soul mate. We had been together for seven years and married for three. We had a very active sex life and didn't argue much about anything. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how I was his best friend. My kids all called him daddy and I did my best to try to show him how much I appreciated his hard work for our family. He always had clean clothes, a hot meal and quiet time when he came home from work. So where do you think I fucked up and why did my baby have to pay for it??? Seriously? I'd like to know.
I'll tell ya how to fix that....find the bastard, cut off his balls and shove them down his damn throat. OMG hun I am so sorry to hear about that. I hope he is serving time for this. Wow HUGS MOMMA!!!
Quoting TinaTay:Ok, so I just found out my husband has been raping my 14 yo daughter for the past year and a half. I was under the impression that this was my soul mate. We had been together for seven years and married for three. We had a very active sex life and didn't argue much about anything. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how I was his best friend. My kids all called him daddy and I did my best to try to show him how much I appreciated his hard work for our family. He always had clean clothes, a hot meal and quiet time when he came home from work. So where do you think I fucked up and why did my baby have to pay for it??? Seriously? I'd like to know.
Quote:So where do you think I fucked up and why did my baby have to pay for it??? Seriously? I'd like to know.
Did the original poster say it was always the woman's fault, that the woman is always the one who "fucked up?"
My husband is addicted to WOW and I know that I could leave him or turn off the internet or something, but my daughter thinks he hung the moon and since he is a decent father I don't want to take her away from him and when he does spend time with us cuz I make him get off the internet he acts like it's the biggest imposition ever!! Grrr men!
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