After 2 months of thinking about things, trying to understand the affairs, and taking a good look at our marriage and it's potential, we talked tonight. Final decision is to file for divorce in Jan after the holidays and our youngest's 2nd birthday.
I feel relieved but sad. I'm upset at the loss of what we had, the good times, the loss of the man I married, and for failing at my marriage. But I feel relieved that it's ending on as good of terms as possible, happy that I had him in my life, and that I won't have the stress of always being insecure about what he's doing and not trusting him.
Good luck mama <3 I am sure better things will come your way!
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I'm sorry you have to go through this, but better now than 10 miserable years down the road:)
Sorry to hear about this. :(
I wish you and your family easy days ahead. And you made a very good point about not having to worry.
Quoting 3earthangels:
After 2 months of thinking about things, trying to understand the affairs, and taking a good look at our marriage and it's potential, we talked tonight. Final decision is to file for divorce in Jan after the holidays and our youngest's 2nd birthday.
I feel relieved but sad. I'm upset at the loss of what we had, the good times, the loss of the man I married, and for failing at my marriage. But I feel relieved that it's ending on as good of terms as possible, happy that I had him in my life, and that I won't have the stress of always being insecure about what he's doing and not trusting him.
My daughter is almost four years old & I love her more than anything and anyone on this earth!
I'm sorry..divorce is never easy but its good that you two were able to talk and come up with a plan. Best wishes for you!!!!
Thank you ladies for all your kind words! I appreciate it greatly in this moment of my life.
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on Nov. 25, 2009 at 11:10 PM