My son, 7, just kicked me in the mouth and made it bleed. DH got me some saltwater to rinse and the bleeding stopped. He got after DS for kicking me. DS was being a pain and wouldn't get off the couch and go to bed. I let him stay up a little later because he wanted to watch the Ben 10 movie on CN and DH got home from work early as well.
I am so f*in pissed right now. After DH was done with DS, he came after me basically saying that I asked to be kicked in the mouth because I let him stay up. He made me even more pissed that I told him Thanksgiving dinner has gone to H*ll. I am not gonna cook for ungrateful little brats. Now my jaw and chin is gonna have a big bruise on it.
A little background on DS. He has been diagnosed with adhd, odd and an anxiety disorder so he can get a little out of hand, but still that is no excuse to kick me in the mouth. BTW this wasn't his first time hitting me either, he's been doing this off and on for years. I can't believe my own son abuses me.
I'm sorry Mama. Have you tried talking to him about it? Letting him know that it hurts you both physically & emotionally when he does things like that to you?
Oh my gosh! I am so sorry! I hope you feel better soon! I don't blame you for punishing him. I would surely put my foot down on that one! I do hope your night gets better and you have a great Thanksgiving tomorrow when things are calmer. Hugs!
-My SO made my face bruise a couple nights ago (not on purpose), so we can have a fat lip together! I turned the light off from the ceiling fan and went to crawl over him in the dark to get to my side of the bed and he went to put me in some MMA headlock thing and whacked me with his foot on my face. :(
Yes we have, and we even seen a therapist but she's was a piece of work. We would go months w/o him hitting me and then out of the blue kapow.
Quoting lovinmykiddo07:
I'm sorry Mama. Have you tried talking to him about it? Letting him know that it hurts you both physically & emotionally when he does things like that to you?
I'm sorry this happened.
Maybe you should look for another therapist or some other sort behavioral program for your son.
But for right now, I would take his FAVORITE thing and lock it in the trunk of your car for a week.
We've been looking for one, it's been hard considering we've been to 3 and they were all whack jobs. There isn't much around here that will help either, I've been looking into every resource I can. Oh, trust me he will be losing a lot of privileges.
Quoting Martina70:
I'm sorry this happened.
Maybe you should look for another therapist or some other sort behavioral program for your son.
But for right now, I would take his FAVORITE thing and lock it in the trunk of your car for a week.
Hmm.. I would def. seek another therapist. I mean, the older he gets, the stronger he gets, which means the more he can hurt you and that is not okay no matter what medical conditions he may have. He needs to learn now, while he is young, that hitting you-or any other person who is not threatening him- is not ok and will not be tolerated.
Quoting hholllyy426:
Yes we have, and we even seen a therapist but she's was a piece of work. We would go months w/o him hitting me and then out of the blue kapow.
Quoting lovinmykiddo07:
I'm sorry Mama. Have you tried talking to him about it? Letting him know that it hurts you both physically & emotionally when he does things like that to you?
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on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:52 AM