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We got busted

Posted by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:38 PM
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We told everybody we were going to my moms today. Kids are with their dad. (who happens to live 5 houses away-we are really good friends)

ex hubby and kids just showed up. Cars are parked in garage so nobody knows we are home. Phones are off. We are hiding out. Ex and kids showed up to make us come for dinner. LOL.

How many people are invited to the ex huby for a holiday dinner LOL. It's normal for us, but still we were hiding out today! I always sucked at hide n seek. LOL

So time to get out of my camo jammies and get ready for my day. I was having steak and prawns for dinner. Damn it. LOL


Just to clarify-I did not lie to my children. today is dads day. Where I go on days they are with dad is not information I am forced to share with my kids. I don't need to tell them everything I do when they aren't looking.

The whole point was that my ex hubby invivted us over for Turkey day. And we are going.

Posted by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:38 PM
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itsnotaclowncar
by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:47 PM
U shouldn't lie to your kids. One day they will lie to you and you won't like it but you've shown them its ok. Sad.
Christy644
by Platinum Member on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:48 PM

Wow really!!!! It's not my Holiday with the kids. It's dads.

Don't judge me as a mother. That's NOT your job

Quoting itsnotaclowncar:

U shouldn't lie to your kids. One day they will lie to you and you won't like it but you've shown them its ok. Sad.


USMCBride08
by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:48 PM

so you NEVER lie? riiiight.

Op. that sucks! LOL id still hide out anyway LOL maybe they'd get hungry and walk away lol

Quoting itsnotaclowncar:

U shouldn't lie to your kids. One day they will lie to you and you won't like it but you've shown them its ok. Sad.



proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08

Mindy88
by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:49 PM

Turkey and time with family is yummier anyway! lol Happy Thanksgiving!

Mom to 2 Boys and 1 on the way!



kmbolds
by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:49 PM

Seriously? Some people have nothing better to do than judge others..... Sad

Quoting itsnotaclowncar:

U shouldn't lie to your kids. One day they will lie to you and you won't like it but you've shown them its ok. Sad.


misssy2000
by Ruby Member on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:51 PM

yea, we dotn lie to the kids either but I guess its nice you guys get to hide out.



lvnmylif
by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 1:51 PM


Quoting itsnotaclowncar:

U shouldn't lie to your kids. One day they will lie to you and you won't like it but you've shown them its ok. Sad.

It will be funny when you tumble from that high horse.

 

OP:  Dang.  Well steak and prawns tomorrow then.  I think it's fantastic you get along so well with your ex.  Your kids are truly lucky because that is rare.

AlyssaRob1416
by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 2:17 PM

I have come to the conclusion that no matter what is posted, someone is going to find a reason to be bitchy about it.

We have friends that are all exes with New SO's and they are the best fo friends.

kk_bella
by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 2:20 PM

THat's hilarious.

Sweetie, go, come back home, drink a glass of wine and get comfortable with your current man!

PollyMarie
by on Nov. 26, 2009 at 2:34 PM

I think it's great that you and ex are such great friends.  That makes working with children much easier.  I also don't see anything wrong with you not wanting to interfere with time with their dad.  It's great that you two are so respectful of each other's time with the children.  I hope ex can cook!  Happy Thanksgiving!

Mommy to a DD expected Dec. 2009.  Bellamie Mashay Fleming


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