My stepchildren's birth mom is stupid as hell.They haven't seen their birthmom in over a month.The kids' grandmother told my dh that their bm is sick.But no one has called us to let us know what's going on the next week so we can make plans to take them to see their bm.We usually talk to her on wed or thursday.on her weekends.
Well I called her house and there was no answer.So i called her mom's house and my dh talked to his former father in law.Bill informs my dh that his daughter is locked up.You heard right their bm is in jail.her stupid behind was trying to sell some of her pills to someone in her apartment complex.the person was an informant for the johnson county police department.
The bm's parents can't come up with the bail money. and she hasn't gone to court yet.she hasn't been taking her meds(she is bipolar and takes anti pyschotic meds) and she hasn't been eating.her own mom was there on saturday to talk to her and she didn't talk to her mom. the police there have her on suicide watch.
so once again she is putting her needs before the kids. they haven't seen her in over a month;cause their mom is being stupid.they have been asking to see her,but we can't take them cause she is locked up.My poor kids!! She needs to stop thinking of herself and start thinking of the kids.She's being selfish!!
What if the kids were with her and she did this.Child protective services would have stepped in.Then my dh and i would be fighting to get them back;cause his ex wife is stupid and not thinking about the kids!!!
I would be angry too. But right now, I'm too thankful that YOU have them, and not her.
Quoting Sagely:
I would be angry too. But right now, I'm too thankful that YOU have them, and not her.
That is really sad for the kids. Hopefully when she gets out she can get her stuff together.
Just be glad that you had the kids and not her at the time that it happened. I know it is hard on the kids, but they have you and their daddy to keep them safe and that is all that matters.
That is hard for kids , they are lucky to have you and their Dad. I hope BM Gets the help she needs to deal with her illness.
i honestly dont think that she will change,my husband told me that she use to cut herself to relieve the pain, she use to see things that aren't there and hear things that aren't there as well. there is this thing that is called Munchausen Syndrome Biproxy.where people feed off the attention they get from having sick children. and they will deliberately keep them sick;just for the attention.
Well she does just that.We have a 13 yr old who is special needs.She has a rare form of childhood epilepsy. she feeds off this attention from her friends and crap. it is totally absurd that she would use our daughter too get off on the attention!!
Iam glad too that the kids weren't with her when she pulled this stupid stunt.We haven't told them that their mom is locked up.Which is for the best i think.
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on Nov. 26, 2009 at 11:27 PM