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are you a jealous person?

Posted by on Nov. 27, 2009 at 3:53 AM
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me and my husband are not. my sister and her boyfriend are. my sisters boyfriend will get mad if she says a guy in a magazine looks good. i think thats weird. and they think we are not normal. i trust my husband and i really believe that if he cheated he would tell me. so how about you? are you a jealous person, how much, and why?
Posted by on Nov. 27, 2009 at 3:53 AM
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SammySJ99
by on Nov. 27, 2009 at 4:00 AM

I can be pushed to it but it takes ALOT!! I look at it like this... My husband is not slick and can't look me in the face and tall a lie... none of his friends would defend him, they would rat him out. We are a military family and both MP's so I like to think we have seen enough cheating to know better.  

I know people that are and I think its just silly... 

Littles1921
by on Nov. 27, 2009 at 4:01 AM

Nope..... not even a little!!  (I know he will find girls more  atractive than I am )  LOL!........ but if he thinks he can find someone who treats him better than I do.........  she can have him!!  LOL!! 

 

mamapaparazzi
by Silver Member on Nov. 27, 2009 at 4:01 AM

 Totally not a jealous person, here.

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brinnyann4
by on Nov. 27, 2009 at 4:02 AM

Nope not a jealous couple. I have a full list of celebrity husbands that I drool over all the time, and same on his side. We point out if we see good looking people in the store or wherever. I know he's mine and I'm his, so why be so uptight?


alwaysjoart
by Bronze Member on Nov. 27, 2009 at 4:20 AM
i dont see any point in being jealous. i check out other guys and i tell him if i think someone looks good. he has told me before too if he thinks a girl looks good. i dont think i can be with someone i cant trust.
dynastysmommy
by Member on Nov. 27, 2009 at 4:29 AM

I'm not jealous at all.

   

 
MamaTasha08
by Jane Doe on Nov. 27, 2009 at 4:38 AM

I'm not jealous at all when it comes to that kind of stuff.  I comment on women more than my husband does. 

mitch576
by on Nov. 27, 2009 at 4:47 AM

no! he's a wicked prude! rofl!!!

 we were at a concernt once in our younger years. it was oz-fest! lol

there was this young woman, a bigger girl.. with HUGE titties... i'm mean just massive.

well.. she was flashing those bad boys all over the place.

i saw them and of course said to my husband {then boyfriend"

"holy shit pete look at the size of that girl's tits!"

he blushed!

then... i've tried to get him to go to the strip club... just out of curiosity to see how he would react.

nope... he believes it's degreading to women! rofl!!!  won't go to the strip club.  i tried to explain to him that it was so degrading that those girls laugh all the way to the bank.

nope... "it's degrading"

i've checked to see if he looks at porn on the computer.... nope.  wouldn't care if he did and he knows that... but nope. no porn.

ten years together and i've never seen him so much as check out another girl... kind of irks me a little because then as a result.. i have to be careful of where my eyes go. and i like to look damn it! lol

 

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PinUpGirl7376
by on Nov. 27, 2009 at 5:11 AM

 I am not a jealous person and niether is my husband.  I mean we all have a natural jealous streak but for me, its a fleeting thought once in a while.  We have been together since junior high so the longevity could have something to do with it.  I've always been secure in my relationship and felt that if he is going to cheat he is going to cheat and there isn't much I can do about it.  If he doesn't love me enough to be faithful then it just wasn't meant to be.  It takes a lot of energy to be jealous and proves for a very miserable journey and I couldn't be happy with my husband with that kind of negative energy and lack of trust.  Its just to way to live in my opinion.  We both know how much we love each other and we have never doubted our loyalty to one another.  I also accept that a little flirtation or attraction to other people is natural and healthy so long as they do not act on it.  I am flattered if anyone is attracted and/or flirts with him and I am sure it gives him a nice little ego boost and lets him know he still "has it" lol.  I just don't have the energy to have that much hostility within me.

momto3infl
by Ruby Member on Nov. 27, 2009 at 5:25 AM

No way takes to much energy to be jealous-we laugh at each other because we feel or say about other people-esp celebs. 

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