Why are men?

[sylvia_vallo]

We just found out that we are going to have a baby and my husbnad acts like its not a big deal. He wont tell his mom cuz he doesnt want to hear about how we needed to wait. I just wish that he would tell her and get over it. Why are men so frustrating. I dont know what to do anymore. Sorry this was more of a vent since I cant write anything anywhere else cuz he has family members all over face book. I just want to Scream at the top of my lungs Im having a baby and instead my excitement turned into stress and crying all the time. and he has to say is Im over reacting.  I dont think its over reacting I should be able to tell who ever i want and not worry if its going to get back to his family

okay I am done for now. Thanks for letting me vent.

[Paesana82]

LMAO...I'm sorry but I'm the same, as your DH. I am dreading telling our families I am prego. For me it's because I am perfectly happy now and I know that my family and his will be party poopers. They alredy think I'm crazy for having 2 kids. My DH would much rather tell everyone and get it over with. 

But you should just talk to your DH and tell him how you feel. Maybe you guys can come to any agreement about when to tell people?

[MomX04]

LOL, my MIL didn't know I was pregnant with my last child until I was nearly 6/7 months.  She found out by accident.  I was walking home from the grocery store and she was at the busstop across the street waiting on the bus.  I didn't feel like hearing no junk about anything so I didn't tell anybody.  I knew all the negative things that were stacked against us and didn't need or want anyone telling me what I already knew.