A little back story. My boyfriend/bd were going out for 4 yrs he cheated on me we "tried" to work it out for two weeks. He hit me, and his ass was out. Now when he got "involved" with this woman he told her i was just his kids mother and basically he had a relationship with her for two months behind my back. This guy is a compulsive liar. Anyway the day after he gets out of jail (for hitting me) she calls me "worried" asking me what happened. Because he called her proclaiming his love for her lol (after he told me if we ever broke up he would never talk to her again). She said she called me because he's a liar and she doesn't believe anything he told her and believed me over him. Anyway she's all upset because he might be cheating on her and she wants to know if he's trying to get back with me (he is) does he still say he loves me and not her (he does) and she doesn't know what to do about him. First of all. Just because we had sex with the same guy doesn't mean we have anything else in common. Just because we were lied to by the same guy doesn't mean we're friends. YOU SLEPT WITH MY BOYFRIEND! Don't complain that he's cheating on you to ME. I just don't care. She knows he hit me, cheat on me, lied to me i don't get why some women think that's a prize of a man. And why the hell does this woman think it's ok to call me? I can't wait until i can afford to get a new phone and number.
honey you can block her number for free. It will just send her to your voice mail but you can just delete those. its in your phonebook options. but yeah I wouldn't give a hoot either. my husband cheated on me when we were just dating then after he broke up with her she tried to be my friend and talk about what an asshole he was. Like duh I knew that. But eventually me and him worked it out and when that happened she went totally psycho but thats another story lol. anyways gl to ya
My youngest son's father sounds a lot like your baby daddy!!! we were together for 4 years also... I lost my job he walked out saying he wouldn't take care of me and my kids... and called me a bum... blah... 2-3 weeks after I lost my job and he walked out... he was fired from his job for fraud and ID theft (he stole my ID and used it to get cell phones in my name for him and his new girlfriend)
His recent baby momma and I were talking about having our kids meet... but now she calls me constantly just to talk about him or texts me asking if hes coming back to me... we split up 2 years ago and I have no desire to get back with him.... He knows this as well as everyone else I know...
I would just ignore her calls.... or simply tell her... what you do and what he does... is between you two... she's not involved with both of your decisions.... (whether her being in the picture or not is going to happen... it's still between you and your kids father... )
that's why we have this wonderful thing called caller ID - just don't answer her calls. just because the phone rings doesn't mean you have to get it.
if she calls from another number, straight out ask her not to call you anymore because you really don't have anything to say to her.
People are RIDICULOUS!! My ex cheated on me.. and the girl called me up. and CRIED.. THE BOTH KNEW he was married. THEY BOTH KNEW he had a family.. and THEY BOTH knew they would be in trouble with the military(she was below him in rank and in his unit) But somehow, this chick called me up looking for sympathy when they got in trouble. It took all i had to not go there and strangle her.. Ugh.. I'm sorry for what ur dealing with.. I'd def tell her not to contact u again!!
I would explain it to her just like that, Look I know it sucks, trust me I do. but what made you think you were special? He did it to me, he will do it to you. I am sorry you have to go through this. But it is painful for me to talk to you. We are not friends. We never will be.
Maybe she needs some incentive to kick his butt to the curb like you did. She may not have anyone else to talk to and figures you will talk to her since you do have him in common. I'm not defending her but she sounds needy. Annoying but needy. Ignore your phone maybe she will get the hint.
I think she's only calling you to talk woman to woman and to find out what she's in for if she continues to carry on with your child's father. Generally men do not miraculously change overnight for any woman and she just wants the low down on him. If you don't want to let her in on what a jerk he is and want her to find out on her own then just tell her you're not interested in talking to her and she has to find out about him herself just like you did.
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on Nov. 27, 2009 at 1:51 PM