SHOULD I BE OFFENED OR NOT?

[philoboysmommy]

SO ANY WAY YESTERDAY WAS THANKSGIVING AND WE ALWAYS TRAVEL TO FAMILY MEMBERS HOUSES. AND I WAS EATING HALF A PIECE OF PIE AND MY HUSBANDS AUNT LOOKS AT HER DAUGHTER AND "SHE LOOKS SICK BEING SO THIN" THEN SHE LOOKS AT ME AND ASKS WHY IM ONLY EATING HALF A SLICE OF PIE. AND I TOLD HER THAT I WAS WATCHING WHAT I WAS EATING THAT I STILL WANTED TO LOOSE 15 POUNDS. AND SHE GOES YOU ALREADY LOOK LIKE YOU ARE SICK AND LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO FLY AWAY. OK PEOPLE I ONLY WENT FROM 175 TO 143 IM NOT THAT THIN. TO ME ITS LIKE THEY ARE JEALOUS THAT THEY ARE ALL GAINING WEIGHT AND IM LOOSING IT.THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT FAT BUT STILL.IM FINALLY STARTING TO LIKE THE WAY I LOOK AND REALLY WANT TO LOOSE MORE WEIGHT. IT JUST HURT MY FEELINGS THE WAY THEY SAID IT. MY QUESTIOIN IS WOULD YOU LOOSE MORE WEIGHT SO YOU COULD FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF LIKE YOU WANT OR WOULD U SAY F IT AND STOP SO YOU DON'T GET ANY MORE COMMENTS

[heavenlyangl420]

 lose weight to how i want to look. im not here to please others 

[maryb311]

You are the one who has to live with your body so I say F what they all think. Do what you feel is right for YOU!

[KrystalY]

You need to be happy with your appearance.  It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks (well, maybe DH to a point, but how you feel is always the most important) 

[mommywife2b]

Well of course you should feel good about how you look, but you shouldnt let anyone else determine that.  If you wanna lose more weight go ahead and do it, thats your body and no one can tell you what to do with it.

[briansmommy7143]

Do what makes YOU happy, but please try to stay healthy, lol! I wouldn't have been offended, however it is rude to tell someone they look sick. Skinny is one thing, but sick is rude.

[mommasbabies77]

Well, I'd do what I could to make myself feel better. How tall are you?

[philoboysmommy]

I AM 5 FOOT 5

[TarotMommy]

Yeah the aunt was out of line. I wouldn't worry about it though. Congratulations on your weight loss! Yay for you!

[TheJerseyGirl]

I'd take it as a compliment as in I'd rather look sick form being thin than sick form being fat! I'd say she's a little envious...and GOOD FOR YOU!!!!

[ff-princess]

if you're 5'5", you can probably still lose about another 20 pounds without doing any harm.  good luck to you in your weight loss journey!

Quoting philoboysmommy:

I AM 5 FOOT 5