need advice; bad language

[jackieandruss]

ok, so here was my thanksgiving.  We had plans for my mother in law and step father in law to come for thanksgiving.  My husband and I do not get along with his sisters so when one invited us to her house, we declined stating that we were having a dinner here but we appreciated the invite.  So the morning of thanksgiving, after i had been up all night cooking the whole damned meal, my husband ran to walmart to get some last minute ingredients i needed and ran into his mom, step dad, and his other sister, whom happen to invite herself over.  After coming home and thinking it over, my husband called his sister and told her she wasn't invited or welcome to come.  This is the same sister who has been trying to split us up, tried and threatened to kick my ass, and so he told her that someone who does his family like that isn't allowed in his home. An hour later, his mom calls and says she doesn't wanna get involved in this and so she isn't coming to our house for thanksgiving since, christina and leslie weren't invited.   We don't see how that involves her in anything, her coming and spending time with us , after the effort we put in, and weeks of planning, and even her telling me a certain thing that she likes and me making sure it was here.  so, we didn't have anyone over for thanksgiving and just had it by ourselves.  The kids were majorly disappointed .  So I wake up this morning to my husband screaming obscenities into the phone,,,, his sister called to say that his mom was extremely upset and he did it to himself.  He blew a head gasket screaming at her saying she was the one who called child protection services, threatening to kick his wifes ass and she has the balls to say, it's his fault,,,,, he is still livid.  So tomorrow, we have plans to go to his dad's house for thanksgiving, and both sister will more than likely be there.  I'm thinking so staying home, but i don't know,    i need advice, what should i do?????

[ajswenson]

You NEED to go.  If you stay home and hide they will have won.  It sounds like your DH is more than capable for standing up for you and yours, so I wouldn't worry about that.  Good luck...family drama sucks!! We have it in our family too if that makes you feel any better.  My mom cancelled her dinner this year b/c my sister was being a dumb bit%h and starting drama with my family....ugh.  HAPPY HOLIDAYS! LOL