and if you hear of a chick who killed her young marine husband in AL, thats me =]
The bastard has been pouting and whiny since YESTERDAY. all because his PARENTS didnt call for thanksgiving. MIND YOU. we haven't heard from his mother since...april. And his father since.. well, damn. IDK when he came and saw his ONLY grandbaby in the hospital, almost a YEAR ago.
But his great father called his exwives daughter.... WTF.
Now dh is moping and driving me nuts. We went and hung out and he was cool but is now pouting again. And i even promised him his fave dinner sunday night. Not working.
IDK how much more i can take. I may just rip that lip off his face so i dont have to see him pout anymore.
I just feel like screaming "GROW THE F' UP. THEY NEVER F'ING CARED IN THE FIRST PLACE. YOU KNOW IT."
but i havent.... yet.
ETA. he used to call them EVERY week. But they'd always rush off the phone, or not answer and never return the calls *he'd leave messages* eventually he stopped and hoped that THEY would call. never have.......
proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08
good luck with it hon. some people dont realize that our very own superheros, our soldiers, are basically taken care of like children by their wives lol....my husband can be the same damn way.
DeLaina, Wife of SPC Jonathan Craft <3, Mama to daughter Natalee Michelle- 17 months, and baker of one little bun in the oven-6 weeks!
lol no lie...
Quoting SpcCraftsWife:
good luck with it hon. some people dont realize that our very own superheros, our soldiers, are basically taken care of like children by their wives lol....my husband can be the same damn way.
proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08
I dont blame him.. Put yourself in his shoes. He's missing out on something, and feels neglected. Dont make it worse by saying "grow th F*** up".. Its not going to help the situation.
hes been missing out on it since FOREVER.
HES not the golden child
he needs to realize it.
hes doing to OUR child what HISparents did to him
Quoting neenerashley:
I dont blame him.. Put yourself in his shoes. He's missing out on something, and feels neglected. Dont make it worse by saying "grow th F*** up".. Its not going to help the situation.
proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08
Wow... no sympathy for your husband eh?
I grew up with a rotten childhood.. and let me tell you.. I STILL have days where it affects me and my relationship with my son.
It's hard as hell trying to overcome obstacles set by parents.. don't make things worse for him by being rude.
If he's hurt, then he's hurt.. If you guys haven't heard from his parents in THAT long then them not calling on a HOIDAY makes it THAT MUCH WORSE.
Honestly.. I think you need to get over the fact that he's upset.. and maybe do something other than say "let me make you a yummy dinner"
Quoting USMCBride08:hes been missing out on it since FOREVER.
HES not the golden child
he needs to realize it.
hes doing to OUR child what HISparents did to him
Quoting neenerashley:
I dont blame him.. Put yourself in his shoes. He's missing out on something, and feels neglected. Dont make it worse by saying "grow th F*** up".. Its not going to help the situation.
What's stopping him from picking up the damn phone himself? This is a similar issue in my former in laws family. Everyone bitches to everyone that no one calls eachother. XMIL bitches that her sons never call her. Her sons bitch that their mom never calls them. Even my brother got his undies in a twist when my dad called me a month ago and didn't call him. he called me because there was specific things he needed to talk to me about, but whatever. Get over eachother. We all know how to use a phone. If I were you, I'd have picked up the phone, put it in his hand and said start dialing or else! I can't stand whiners!!
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- USMCBride08
on Nov. 28, 2009 at 12:49 AM