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too mean? or just right?

Posted by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:05 PM
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A person I know got cheated on, so she broke it off with her fiance. They have a child together. She had him come over to stay with their child for black friday shopping, and because he had been harrassing her via internet and phone, she unfriended him on sites and changed her phone number.

While she was gone, he went on her computer and checked all of her messages, which gave him her new phone number.

She found out and took everything he had left in their apartment and threw it into the hallway and then went onto facebook and put on her status "___ street (her address) everything must go!" and then listed items she threw into the hallway....

so yeah... funny or too mean?


Posted by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:05 PM
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sniklefritz
by Silver Member on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:12 PM

SOUNDS PERFECT>>>> BTW..since he had access to other info she needs to cancel her credit cards(new account numbers) cancel bank accounts and check to see if any of her blank checks are missing..the guy sounds like a dick and a stalker...wouldnt put it past him to try to $#%& her over in a finacial way... 

SimplyAngie
by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:13 PM

I agree. He deserved it.

Quoting sniklefritz:

SOUNDS PERFECT>>>> BTW..since he had access to other info she needs to cancel her credit cards(new account numbers) cancel bank accounts and check to see if any of her blank checks are missing..the guy sounds like a dick and a stalker...wouldnt put it past him to try to $#%& her over in a finacial way... 



Just_Bethy
by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:14 PM

I would not have had him come to my house and watch my child..I would have taken him to the dads house and have him watch him there...She knew he was untrustworthy....That wasn't a smart thing to do...As to dumping his stuff...I don't think it was wrong as such..he should have had his stuff out by now.... 

 


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Not.So.Virginal
by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:14 PM

she doesnt have credit cards.... and i dont think she does any online banking. I don't know if she even has a bank account

Quoting sniklefritz:

SOUNDS PERFECT>>>> BTW..since he had access to other info she needs to cancel her credit cards(new account numbers) cancel bank accounts and check to see if any of her blank checks are missing..the guy sounds like a dick and a stalker...wouldnt put it past him to try to $#%& her over in a finacial way... 



Not.So.Virginal
by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:16 PM

she kicked him out earlier in the week. He actually had no place to live and she would rather have him at the apartment than taking her god knows where. One night he slept in his truck behind their apartment and some big guy tried to break into the truck while he was in there.....

Quoting Just_Bethy:

I would not have had him come to my house and watch my child..I would have taken him to the dads house and have him watch him there...She knew he was untrustworthy....That wasn't a smart thing to do...As to dumping his stuff...I don't think it was wrong as such..he should have had his stuff out by now.... 



my4kids274
by Platinum Member on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:16 PM

Just right!

Bennett121
by Gold Member on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:17 PM

 laughing

milmiracle
by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:17 PM

I think that's funny cuz I don't c the correlation.

Not.So.Virginal
by on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:22 PM

to him going into her stuff? she just wanted all of his stuff out

Quoting milmiracle:

I think that's funny cuz I don't c the correlation.



sniklefritz
by Silver Member on Nov. 28, 2009 at 7:24 PM

I suggest telling her to protect herself in any case...and to PROMTLY call law enforcement if something is fishy...Maybe even make an incident report just to have it on file if something does come up...It's called "covering your ass"..Tell her I've got my fingers crossed  for her...

Quoting Not.So.Virginal:

she doesnt have credit cards.... and i dont think she does any online banking. I don't know if she even has a bank account

Quoting sniklefritz:

SOUNDS PERFECT>>>> BTW..since he had access to other info she needs to cancel her credit cards(new account numbers) cancel bank accounts and check to see if any of her blank checks are missing..the guy sounds like a dick and a stalker...wouldnt put it past him to try to $#%& her over in a finacial way... 

 


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