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What do you consider cheating?

Posted by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:13 AM
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Is it always a sexual act?

Is it putting another person's feelings over your spouse's feelings?

Does it start with emotional feelings first?

At which point would you consider a spouse to be cheating?


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kenziedawnmom
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:17 AM

When he has any  feeling for another woman ,and he acts on those feeling , it be emotional or sexual.

ARMYWIFEHILL
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:20 AM

anything he is doing with a female that he wouldnt do right in front of me is cheating!!!! if he wouldnt do it with me there then he shouldnt do it! KWIM i mean granted yes hes in korea and yes he has friend that are females but we talk about it lol! bc if he were home NO he wouldnt be hanging out with females outside our marriage ALONE!

celticreverie
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:22 AM

Cheating can be anything from a kiss in a bar

to a meaningless drunken one night stand

to an emotional attachment the spouse develops with another person (not physical at all).

Cheating is anything you wouldn't want your SO to see/know about.


abbysmommy429
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:23 AM

Actions or feelings towards someone else other than me is cheating. 

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Richys_Girl
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:25 AM


Quoting abbysmommy429:

Actions or feelings towards someone else other than me is cheating. 


Avabliss
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:25 AM

I agree with the physical and emotional attachment/actions that the other posters are saying.

I disagree with the feelings part.  I think that through our life time we are bound to have "feelings" for other people.  Doesn't make it cheating if we do nothing about it, it makes it biology. 

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by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:26 AM


Quoting celticreverie:

Cheating can be anything from a kiss in a bar

to a meaningless drunken one night stand

to an emotional attachment the spouse develops with another person (not physical at all).

Cheating is anything you wouldn't want your SO to see/know about.


I agree with this.


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gulfcoastmom4
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:26 AM

Cheating to me is anything you feel guilty about and would not want your spouse to find out about. Or if you wouldn't do it in front of your spouse.

i.heart.rachel
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:26 AM

Anything you do with another man/woman that you wouldn't do in front of your spouse is cheating IMO.

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RiverPhenix
by on Dec. 1, 2009 at 10:35 AM

This.

Quoting gulfcoastmom4:

Cheating to me is anything you feel guilty about and would not want your spouse to find out about. Or if you wouldn't do it in front of your spouse.



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