Ok, for those of you....

[kstailey]

who try to say that every guy that pays child support, or that owes backpay is a dead beat. I'm going to prove you wrong, cuz not EVERY GUY IS! Yeah sure you get the ones that are, but you can't justify and say that they ALL are. Also for those who think that the people who go after child support don't think it's another pay check. I'm not saying all women think like that, but I'm sure a lot do.

Ok, so when I met DH he had to get 2 jobs in order to pay rent since they were taking half of his pay checks from his main job. So I would always go to the store and get whatever food I could at the time and take it over, so there was food in the house.

Well in March we had moved to a bigger city and he got a better paying job. Of course a bigger city usually you get a better job, well the stupid bitch at the payroll office was to lazy to read the court order that states IF INSURANCE AND CHILD SUPPORT TOGETHER COME OUT TO MORE THEN 50% OF THE CHECK DO NOT TAKE OUT THE INSURANCE. Well they did it anyways, so we were getting screwed. Seeing as how we couldn't really pay rent, he was offered a job back home and would have to ay very little rent. So of course we took it.

So in October we moved back to the small town, and well of course he isn't making near as much.

So she calls today, how she got his work number beats the holy shit outta me. Anyways, she calls and says for him to sign his rights over. Then she goes on about how she's not getting as much money as she should be. And that she's pissed off because they don't have insurance anymore, when I called the CSED and they said that she has them insurance already! He told her you are getting half of every check. She has enough balls to say, Well it's not enough! He told her to call her after work and they will figure it out, and of course she hasn't called.

So she called to bitch saying that she wasn't getting all the money every month when he is sending her what the court order says to do! Proof right there that it is nothing but a pay check to some people. AND I'M NOT SAYING ALL PEOPLE.