This girl my friend knocked up was doing something unsafe with their 5 month old daughter and I corrected her on it. Nicely. And her mom and her flipped out on me and her mother was telling me that I should close my legs because I'm no better than her daughter and I shouldn't have 2 kids at my age. And that apparently I am a bad parent if I have the time to correct her daughter when I should really be tending to my kids. I'm thinking...Really now? I am a bad parent and I'm no better than her daughter? Really? I research everything before I let my daughter have it, I read the ingredients in everything I give her, and I stay home with her. I don't live at home with my mom like this girl does. I don't sit on my ass and do nothing all day. I actually clean and grocery shop and play with my kids. I am going to school in the Spring, yes, but I am going for only 2 days a week and during that time I'm at school my kids will be with my grandmother who always wants to keep them. I am married and my husband is in the military. We live on our own, we pay our own bills. What gives this woman the right to tell me I shouldn't have kids and to close my legs? Her daughter is un-married, lives with her mommy and doesn't work, clean, or go to school. She's planning on going to college but again she's just throwing her child in daycare and not dealing with her. She never acts like she's mature enough to have a kid. Just because she opened her legs and got pregnant doesn't make her a good mom. She dumps her kid off on anyone who will watch her and goes out and drinks. She JUST turned 18, This is the same girl who was due after me and had her baby a month before me because she chose not to wait and against her dr's advice drank castor oil. And it actually worked a couple hours later she was in labor and they couldn't stop it. She continuously endangers her kid. I swear I see her everywhere I go and she NEVER has her kid with her. I always have my 2 with me and I cater to their every need. So what gives her mother the right to tell me I don't deserve my kids and that I should close my legs? I am done having kids. I get my tubes tied next Dec for my bday. Both my kids were very much planned by me and my husband. And we were out of school and working so we financially could afford it.
This is the real me...I am the 19 year old, mother of 3, with the pleasure of raising 2 and the knowledge that 1 is looking out for me as my guardian angel. I am the wife to a soilder of the US Army. I love my family and my friends. I get my feelings hurt easily when I am under attack, but I can usually forgive my attackers. I am my own person and I won't change for anyone. If you don't like me, that's ok, You're on the opposite side of a computer screen, and you can't hurt me with anything but words. You're not real in my mind. Because I have the power to sign off and ignore you. I will always be here though if ANYONE needs me...even if we have never seen eye to eye. I am me, if you can't handle that...oh well.
I think careless people don't want to be corrected because they don't care. So it was rude for the mother to jump in and make a snap judgment on you. But when we say something that wasn't asked of us right r wrong we will get a response good or bad. Sorry she lashed out at yo.
what did she do ? maybe the lesson in this is 2 mind your own business bc they clearly don't want your help
Quoting MsDean:I am curious as well? I mean could whatever it was have set off that response?
Quoting wickdprincess:
What did she do?
It matters if the baby was in danger.
Quoting butrflyekises:
what did she do ? maybe the lesson in this is 2 mind your own business bc they clearly don't want your help
Quoting MsDean:
I am curious as well? I mean could whatever it was have set off that response?
Quoting wickdprincess:
What did she do?
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