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PLEASE im so scared i am so close to tears (( tmi))

Posted by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:11 AM
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df and i had sex last night for the first time in about a month, and it was also the longest we have had sex in probably months.... and i didnt go to the bathroom afterwards like i normally did an, when i woke up this moring to go to the bathroom, i looked at my leg and there was somethign dried on it, so i picked it off, and it was almost like a piece of tissue....i was just freaked out at that, so when i wiped myself, i looked at the toilet paper, but there was no blood... i looked in the toilet and there wasnt any blood that i could see on the other pieces i had used either... but at the bottom of the toilet there were several ..i dont even know whast tpo call them, because i dont really knwo what clots look like, but they didnt look bloody, they just looks like when a piece of skins breaks off in the inside of your mouth, and you finaly pull it out, thats what they looked like, one of the pieces was about a dime sized..  im so upset, this  has never happened anytime i have had sex before while pregnant, and im so scared because since i didnt go to the bathroom last nigh, i dont know if i was bleeding or anything, and i think i felt gabe move a couple times, but im not positive because im so scared and searching for feeling him that that might not have been what i felt.. this is my first baby, and i fought hard to have him((long story))im so scared that something has happened to him because of what we did last night.. please please let me know if you think thisis doctor worthy or if you thinki this happens all the time...

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by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:11 AM
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southernjess3
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:12 AM

are you sure it just wasnt lots of dried cum??

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jsp08
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:13 AM

When I was pregnant nothing like that happened. Idk what it could be. But here's a bump for you!

cardington
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:14 AM

I don't know. I would call your doctor and explain it to him/her.

swesolek6
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:14 AM

it was pink, like flesh .. i dont think it could dry and look like that...

Quoting southernjess3:

are you sure it just wasnt lots of dried cum??


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USMCBride08
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:14 AM

get some orange juice, or any other really sweet beverage. drink it and lay still.

the sugar will help get your baby moving. at least with wyatt it did =] 




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akataml
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:14 AM

drink a glass of ice water and lay down on your right side.Baby should start kicking.How far along are you?

It sounds though like its just dried semen 

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preemiemommy
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:14 AM

it might have just been the left over man juice coming out...that happens to me after we have sex. if i go to the bathroom right after, i "leak" lots of stuff like that....and if i dont and wait til the next day its not as much, but still there.

i wouldn't worry a whole lot about it :) i'm sure you're fine.

just be glad you can have sex...its been since sept. 5th for us...and im not allowed sex, orgasm, or any stimulation til after baby is born...ugh 

 




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MrsReesca17
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:15 AM

It also could just be a little bit of dried blood mixed with a little cum.  When you're pregnant, your cervix is softer, and it's normal to bleed a little after sex.  If you didn't go to the bathroom, then it could have all just dried up inside you and came out when you went to the bathroom.

Is the baby moving normally?  If you're not contracting or bleeding and the baby is moving, I would say you're fine.

swesolek6
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:16 AM

if thats what it is im really sorry everyone im gonna call my doctor and see what they say..

Quoting akataml:

drink a glass of ice water and lay down on your right side.Baby should start kicking.How far along are you?

It sounds though like its just dried semen 


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mom22tumblebugs
by on Dec. 14, 2009 at 11:16 AM

You don't mention it, but how far along are you? Having intercourse, even for a long time will not cause an implanted normally developing baby to spontaneously abort. And it is not uncommon to have some blood after intercourse b/c during pregnancy your cervix gets soft and can be easily irritated.

If you have concerns though, you must be at least 19 wks if you say you can feel your baby move, call your OB. 

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