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Public school hands out "gay can be cured" fliers.. really?

Posted by on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:23 PM
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http://gayrights.change.org/blog/view/when_public_schools_peddle_ex-gay_propaganda


You expect your kids to come home from school with homework, maybe a report card, or a note from the teacher. But would you expect your kids to come home with a flier from an ex-gay organization? At a public school no less?

Turn to Montgomery County, just outside of Washington, D.C., where a group of high school students were officially given literature from Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays (PFOX), an ex-gay organization that believes that sexual orientation is a self-chosen identity, and collaborates with organizations who view homosexuality as destructive. What did the flier given to students say?

According to teachthefacts.org, the flier told students that if they were LGBT or knew someone who identified as LGBT, that they could change. Oh, and of course, that scientists have yet to discover the "gay center of the brain."

"Every year thousands of people with unwanted same-sex attractions make the personal decision to leave a gay identity through gender affirming programs, including therapy, faith based ministries, and other non-judgmental environments," the PFOX flier stated. "No 'gay gene' or gay center of the brain has been found. No medical test exists to determine if a person is homosexual. Sexual orientation is based on feelings and is a matter of self-affirmation and public declaration."

Huh, maybe next week the Montgomery County Public Schools would like to hand out fliers suggesting that the world is flat? Because that carries about as much scientific fact as what PFOX is saying. Tell the Montgomery County Public Schools that peddling propaganda from ex-gay organizations is not only harmful to LGBT students, it's also an affront to science.

PFOX claims to have distributed the flier as a means of drawing attention to the discrimination that ex-gay people face. But as the Washington City Paper's Amanda Hess points out, PFOX doesn't really have all that many ex-gays among its membership. Just a lot of straight people who talk about how gay people can change their sexual orientation.

But PFOX and their bad science aside, what was the Montgomery County Public School system thinking? The President of the School Board even admitted that these fliers "probably" ran counter to what children are taught in the classroom.

"These fliers are probably counter to what is available in our health curriculum," said President Patricia O'Neill. Really? So would you hand out a flier that says 2+2=67 too?

The school district said they were forced by a previous lawsuit to distribute the fliers. But does litigation really mean giving your students misinformation? As teachthefacts.org notes, that's just not a good enough justification.

"This is damaging both to gay adolescents who need understanding and accurate information at a time in their lives when they are most vulnerable, and to the others, who are forming attitudes and stereotypes, and are likely to believe this junk about gay people choosing not to be gay, especially since it is handed out by their teachers, at school," they write.

If you agree, send the Montgomery County Public Schools a message that ex-gay fliers -- fliers that counter what's being taught in student health classes -- don't deserve to be distributed like the lunch menu.


HUH? Really? What would you do if your kid came home with a flier like this?

Posted by on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:23 PM
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kk_bella
by on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:24 PM

I would lose my shit.

Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:27 PM

There is just too much BS and "pseudo-parenting" in schools now and not enough learning!  I will sell my soul before I use the public school system!

i.heart.rachel
by on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:29 PM

I hate hate hate the public school system. HATE it. I dare them to send a flier like that home with MY kid.. hahaha.

Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:31 PM

We may disagree on what to teach, but we certainly agree who should be teaching it! 

Quoting i.heart.rachel:

I hate hate hate the public school system. HATE it. I dare them to send a flier like that home with MY kid.. hahaha.


GoddessNDaRuff
by Silver Member on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:33 PM

I'd be on the school board's ass. Don't send my kids home with that homophobic, hate mongering bullshit.  Lawsuit forced them my ass. They would not want to deal with me. Another lawsuit will have to force them not to hand that shit out cause after hearing that I'd have a lawsuit on that ass just to see what they would pull out their hats next.

Sorry for all the cussing but that really pissed me off.

 

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mother_of_JGM
by Gold Member on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:35 PM

I am sorry, I am 110% against teaching my kids that gay is ok, BUT this still makes me angry because I would think that the oposing side has just as much right to teach their kids what they want to, I dont think it is other adults right especially at a SCHOOL to talk to them about anything to do with sex or sexual orientation.

I am angry about the fact they are now teaching "alternative lifestyles" in school with out parents permission, I think it should have to have a consent form (just like sex ed), but I think the same goes for those I agree with as well, I also dont have any right to teach your children my beliefs if that is not what you want to teach them.

On the same hand if they are going to teach (with OUT)  my permission things I am against in school then the gay community should have no problem with us teaching the other side. It goes both ways, either we BOTH have the right to teach what we believe even though it has nothing to do with acedemics, or NEITHER of us do. Does that make sense?

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i.heart.rachel
by on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:35 PM

Anyone know HOW a lawsuit could FORCE them to hand out stuff like this?? I'd like to know.

Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:36 PM

I'm guessing that the tolerance teaching that has been gaining popularity has prompted this.  If you have one you have to have the other because public schools cannot be one sided!

Quoting i.heart.rachel:

Anyone know HOW a lawsuit could FORCE them to hand out stuff like this?? I'd like to know.


SimplyMagical
by Bronze Member on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:37 PM

i'd be pissed ! plain and simple ..... how dare they hand out fliers like that to children! 

mommam58122
by on Feb. 7, 2010 at 6:37 PM

i would be bitching to the school saying what the hell are you teaching our kids that they cant think for themselves? if my kid wants to be gay then they can be gay

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