If this was.........

[erinbills]

your husband? 

Ok so if you had a husband that worked 3rd shift, (11pm-7am), and came home went to bed and didn't get up until YOU woke him up around 4pm or 5pm, bitches if the kids are loud while he is "trying" to sleep, pretty much refuses to be left alone with the children, who you can't trust to be alone with the children because you can't trust that he will feed them, yells at you every time he can't find something saying you must have moved it, doesn't do his own laundry but bitches if you were to busy to remember to wash them or dry them, only helps you clean or with the kids if you complain enough and he get sick of hearing it, spends any extra money you have on stuff for himself or his POS truck, complains if you spend any kind of money on things including groceries (you have 4 kids), when it is tax time and you get a good amount back (because of the 4 kids) what doesn't get spent on bills is his to spent because you don't work HE DOES, and last but not least leaves you home alone ALOT with an infant.

What would you do?

This is not me it is a friend of mine and I have observed almost everything on this list happening to her. She yells back and they fight about his attitude at least once a month. 

[Christy644]

I'd be divorcing his sorry ass

[KellyOh72]

Has he always been this way or did he suddenly become like this?

 

[MomofVictor]

It wouldn't be my husband because we would be getting a divorce...I don't think I could have had 4 kids with him if he was like that!!

[lvnmylif]

If it were me I would have nipped alot of those issues in the butt before they became big problems.  If I were to ever find myself in that god awful situation I would sign us up for marriage counseling.  He would either go with me or I would go by myself and he would pay a shit ton in child support.  There is no excuse for raising four children in that type of environment.

[erinbills]

No since I have known them he has been this way which is about 5 years, since thier oldest was about 9 months. Only 3 of the kids are his. Her oldest is from another relationship.

[mrsjones2207]

Go to counseling....if that didnt work Id prolly leave him.