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WTF!!! I'm going to kill him if its true..I'll find away

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:09 PM
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First off....my 9 year old sister has a problem...

she poops her pants because she cant really feel when she has to go. she is also bipolar.

She hasnt always been like this. She was potty trained and this started I think when she was...6?

Well I've tried talking to her...and she said that her dad (who is abusive and lots more) had touched her once....but I didnt know if she meant..that he had changed her diaper when she was a toddler.

She had a freak out awhiel ago saying she wanted to go live with Dan (she hasnt ever called him "dad" not once.

It pissed me off I just let it slip and said "well if you want your nose busted and to be touched in places" He never once hit her ...but he beat the living shit out of me and would jsut do creepy stuff...like once I looked up and he was looking in on me thru the stained glass window in my door (the house was from the 1930s and my room use to be a office). it really creeped me out. and there had been one time he pointed down my tank top and said "your boobs are gettign bigger...neeed a new bra?". *shivers* If my mom had said with him any longer he would have probably raped me. His brother did when I was 15.

but when I said the being touched places part I was refering to what happened to me.

but you know what her repsonse was?

"He wont touch me anymore.......I mean he never did"

It worries me so much....my mom has taken her to a doc to see about her...but my sister flipped the hell out and didnt let anybody touch her.

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:09 PM
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bella36
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:11 PM

CPS! NOW! OMG, how horrible.

MamaBloom777
by Gold Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:12 PM

That's terrible!  Will your sister talk to a psychologist or something?  Maybe someone who is more objective can get to the bottom of things. 

JADIEBUG
by Platinum Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:12 PM

Sounds like CPS needs to step in NOW.


dennysgirl07
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:12 PM

idk heres a bump!

ZelisMommy
by Ruby Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:12 PM

Wait, What? is this your step dad u are talking about? Is your mom still w/ him? And his brother raped you? Is he in jail for it?

pageantgirl3
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:12 PM

Oh no, I am so sorry. I know that had we stayed with my step dad, he would of raped me too. I hope it didn't happen!

RonLee51
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:13 PM

Sounds like if you found him creepy, and she says things like that, that there could be grounds for what you are thinking.  Such a shame, that some grown men do such things and can't leave children alone.  Good luck in finding the truth, hope all works out okay.

25beengoodtome
by Ruby Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:13 PM

 Poor kid. She's lucky to have you paying attention and protecting her. 

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lesliemck86
by Silver Member on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:14 PM

I think you know what to do.

scootermom
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 5:14 PM


Quoting bella36:

CPS! NOW! OMG, how horrible.

Agreed.  I'd call CPS and or a counselor or someone she can talk to.

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