why do you need to know where his is 24/7?

[zjonzie]

i cant help but see so many women who freak out because they dont know where dh is or he isnt answering his phone.  why are you so suspicious?  why do you get so angry?  i know what my dh is doing most of the time, but if he were a little late i am not going to freak out and think he is cheating, jeez he has a life too! 

i think if i were married to some of you id disappear at times as well lol

[CallieLynsMommy]

I always know where my SO is just as he knows where I am always. I mean, if one of us is home and goes out with DD while the other is working, no big deal, but we usually call to let each other know. I'm not suspicious at all, for us it's just common courtesy.

Edit: I'm so out of it I'm putting DH, oy.

[SuperPickle]

Mine has a medical condition so I do like to know where he is. I get a little nervous when I cant get ahold of him but I wouldnt say I freak out

[audriesmommy]

I completely agree.  My husband may be considerate most of the time and tell me what he is doing.  But if he doesn't I would never get mad at him over it.

[zjonzie]

im going by another post where the wife is freaking out.  i can understand getting nervous.  my dh works an hour away so i do get a bit nervous if he were to be a bit late, but then again he is so courteous he would never be more than 20 min without calling me. 

[CoUrtNEyLeE]

He lets me know where he is going and I tell him where I am going I don't worry about him cheating because he knows I would kill them both :) JK but its just out of respect we let each other know where we are and what time we will be home!

[gulfcoastmom4]

I agree.

[oboe_chik]

Im with you...DH had back surgery in September and hasn't been released to return to work yet. He spends some of his day at home doing stuff and some at friends houses. I really don't care to know where he is every second of the day. I trust him to use his better judgement on the things he chooses to do (meaning if I asked him to load the dishwasher doing that before leaving the house etc).

But if he was constantly nagging on me asking me where I was I would probably leave my phone in the car while I was somewhere just so I didn't have to listen to it for an hour. Can't say I blame the husbands one bit.

[cutebaby06]

If I was married or had a boyfrined,I sure as hell wouldn't want him checking in with me or telling me where he's gonna be every second of the day that he's out.I would trust him 100%.

[lesliemck86]

Well probably when they come on here and read posts like "I bet you don't know where your husband is all the time, he could be cheating on you!!!" That makes them paranoid, thanks cafemom! ;) And yes I have seen a lot of women say this on this site.

[zjonzie]

lol if someone is willing to listen to a stranger on cafemom over knowing their own husband, then maybe he is cheating!  i wouldnt listen to betty lou about my dh;'s whereabouts, unless she is with him how would she know? haha.    i just cant imagine being in such a marriage.

Quoting lesliemck86:

Well probably when they come on here and read posts like "I bet you don't know where your husband is all the time, he could be cheating on you!!!" That makes them paranoid, thanks cafemom! ;) And yes I have seen a lot of women say this on this site.