Here's the story...
I used to work with a guy that I'll call John. We were friends, he was friends with my husband when my husband still worked for this company, he helped us moved and was at our wedding. John had a son I'll call Jimmy. In January, John lost his job and then 2 weeks later, his wife left him. Friday night, John shot and killed 7 year old Jimmy, and then turned the gun on himself. Now, Jimmy's uncle (his mom's brother) also works here. He and I are pretty good friends. I've also met Jimmy's mom on a couple of occasions.
Now for my questions...to whom do I address the sympathy card to? Jimmy's uncle or mom? Do I bring 2 cards with me, one for each? Also, what exactly happens at calling hours? What should I do or say? I've never really been to any calling hours. I will be going alone as my husband does not think he would be able to handle it. I should mention that I did also know the child from a few company functions.
Thanks in advance for any answers!