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what's the youngest you would leave a child alone?

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:45 PM
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Question: for an hour?

Options:

3

4

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7

8

9

10

11

12

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14


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Total Votes: 119

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Posted by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:45 PM
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lvnmylif
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:47 PM

It would depend on the child but the youngest I think woud be 11.  Catch me in a few years when my oldest is 11 and I may change it to 16...

mommywife06
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:47 PM

Leave alone? As in leave alone in a room? Or leave alone in the house? In a room my 16 month old plays in her room while I clean. But in the house at 12. If I feel they can be trusted. If I dont think I can trust them(depending on behaviors and such) then they will come with me.

Mamaz
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:48 PM

9-10

Just_Bethy
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:49 PM

I voted 14..only coz 16 wasn't on there..lol.....No I guess 14 is OK for an hour..I trust my kids..but the crime in the city is getting worse and I am afraid of being burgled...We live in a nice house in a quiet neighbourhood and 3 houses on our block have been robbed so far this year...I would freak if someone got in my house with my kids there alone....


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n03z07l08
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:49 PM

It would really depend on the child. My sister is 12 and just now starting to stay home alone but I think for my son it will be around 9. I started babysitting my newborn sister at 9 and everything was always fine.

tattedmommynlj
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:49 PM

i will have to decide when it gets to that point... i was left home at a very very young age but i knew what to do and what not to do. i was riding public trans at 9 to go to the mall with me and friends.

kemmerer411
by Gold Member on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:50 PM

I voted 12... being home alone is a BIG responsibility. Too many things can happen to a little kid thats not ready for that.

4munchkinmommy
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:50 PM

I think it depends on the child, but about 14 in general.


hummingbird86
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:51 PM

In our state it is illegal to leave a child under a certain age home alone.

pinkfairy0206
by on Feb. 17, 2010 at 4:51 PM

just because i'am such a paranoid person, all 3 of my children will not be left alone for any amount of time until at least 14. my brother and i where left alone when we were 7 and 8, and we did some crazy things that we are lucky we didn't get seriously hurt!

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