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is this rape...she didn't say no but cried

Posted by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:37 AM
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Question: What do you think?

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He is guilty of Rape

What he did was wrong but I wouldn't say RAPE

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Ok, my friend and I were having a dicussion of when its RAPE and when it isn't. We came up with this senerio and wondered what you ladies would vote. Now you are voting on HOW YOU FEEL and NOT   on what you THINK the LAW is.


Mary has been dating Tom for over a year, they are sexually active, they have explored all sorts of sexully acts together. One they tried was annal sex, and Mary HATED it said it was painful and she never wanted to try it again, and she asked Tom to PROMISED never to ask or try to have annal sex with her again. He swore. A month later, they had a argument because Tom thought Marry had broken her promised by talking to an ex friend fo Tom's. That night they are in the bedroom, getting it on and Tom decides she broke a promise he can break his. When Mary relieses what Tom is doing she says "YOU PROMISED YOU WOULD NEVER HURT ME" Tom said you broke your promise I am going to break mine. And he gets on top of her and holds her down, she just starts sobbing so hard that she can't talk. So did he RAPE her



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lovemymarine306
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:38 AM

rape is rape...married or not

                                  

JenB1983
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:40 AM

Rape, plain and simple.  I don't even see how this would be an argument.

mommyrachelh
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:40 AM


Quoting lovemymarine306:

rape is rape...married or not


A guy friend argued that she didn't say "NO" straight out

Mackenzie40
by Platinum Member on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:41 AM

 of course he did . He purposely forced a sexual act on her against her will. Why in the world would anyone vote differently?What do people think rape is?

sweetcherry_59
by Platinum Member on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:42 AM

Rape is when you force yourself on someone when they say no. She clearly said no and it is her body nomatter what he thinks is fair.


-RPGmomof3-
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:42 AM

Sex should not be used as a form of punishment, therefore yes it is rape

 

HouseKatof2
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:44 AM

 

Quoting mommyrachelh:

 

Quoting lovemymarine306:

rape is rape...married or not


A guy friend argued that she didn't say "NO" straight out

Yes but he went into it with full knowledge that she didn't want it.

He held her down and did it any way... while she sobbed uncontrollably!

How is that not rape? 


"It is in our obligation to endure that we achieve the right to know."
~My Dad   




"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men" 
~Fredrick Douglass

sweetcherry_59
by Platinum Member on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:44 AM

Ya but him having to hold her down and her sobbing in pain is still no.....she was just so upset she couldn't vocalize it. It is rape plain and simple. Forcing yourself on someone is wrong even if you have been sexually active with them before.

Quoting mommyrachelh:


Quoting lovemymarine306:

rape is rape...married or not


A guy friend argued that she didn't say "NO" straight out



Angelkisses_o3
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:45 AM

 If it was forced sex then yes I'd say it was rape.

No means no PERIOD!

zezzawoman
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:48 AM

The pig raped her!!!

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