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Posted by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 6:27 PM
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So recently i have started to see this guy he is awsome and good with my kids. My problem is in my whole sexual life i have never had an orgasm even though sex with sean is awsome and i come close everytime i just cant reach the big O. When i get close i tense up and i dont know why but i  can feel everything tense up. I want to have a orgasm but i cant for some reason. Every guy i have been with has told me that i am hard to get off but i cant help it. I can reach the big O if i do it myself but i want to experience the big O during sex any advice would be great thanks


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KokoJones
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 6:29 PM

have you tried being on top that is the easiest way for me to get the big O though my hubs rocks my world when he's in the drivers seat as well :/

jenking04
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 6:33 PM


Quoting KokoJones:

have you tried being on top that is the easiest way for me to get the big O though my hubs rocks my world when he's in the drivers seat as well :/

I hate the top always have even though the sex is better when i'm on top. Even when hes on top i get really close but then my whole body just tenses up and i cant control it i feel bad when i have to lie to him when he asks me if i'm going to O


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mom2myangelboy
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 6:35 PM

 Well I have that issue as well. If my dh "massages" the outer parts(clitoris) while he is penetrating that works everytime. I have to tell you i NEVER respond to these posts nor do I talk about sex with people so i am sitting her about 20 shades of red.

I figured since i have the same issue i would share.

sati769leigh
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 6:36 PM

 

Quoting jenking04:

So recently i have started to see this guy he is awsome and good with my kids. My problem is in my whole sexual life i have never had an orgasm even though sex with sean is awsome and i come close everytime i just cant reach the big O. When i get close i tense up and i dont know why but i  can feel everything tense up. I want to have a orgasm but i cant for some reason. Every guy i have been with has told me that i am hard to get off but i cant help it. I can reach the big O if i do it myself but i want to experience the big O during sex any advice would be great thanks

 my advice? wait till you trust the person 110%. i am thinking it might be because you really dont completely trust them in all aspects of the relationship. give it more time before entering in to that phase some women need a better stronger more committed relationship to relax enough to lose themselves in an orgasm with a partner. that is my thoughts anyways

                                                   


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by Silver Member on Mar. 6, 2010 at 6:46 PM

When you tense, find a way to RELAX.  Don't think about it - blank out your mind and just feel...  It'll happen...

Joeysmom6
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 7:01 PM
I dont know love, I have been with my DH for 4 years and I have the same problem. Its so annoying
krista778
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 7:06 PM

Have you tried KY Intense? It's supposed to help women like you.

momof41981115
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 7:15 PM

Me too:(    Their are some sex groups on here that have been helpful though. You should join one.

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