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Do you make them eat things they dont like? *Another Question*

Posted by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:53 PM
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 Do you make your kids eat things even when they dont like them? Do you let them try things that YOU dont like? My kids had cow tongue and eggs tonight... lol but they liked it. It got me wondering what others would say though, lol.

So I thought I would answer my own question. Sometimes I do make them eat things they dont like. For example, when they come back for seconds on their chicken but leave their veggies untouched, I make them eat them. I typically dont have a problem with veggie eaters, but sometimes they give me a hard time.

Did your parents force YOU to eat things you didnt want to?



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Posted by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:53 PM
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krise
by Platinum Member on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:54 PM

 I tell them they need to aleast try it, 2 bits.

Rubysoho1
by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:55 PM

 If its something new I used to have them take "no thank you bites". now I just don't make the stuff they don't like or make them something else.

Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:55 PM

They have to try everything.  But they all like things I don't - I am VERY picky.  Hubby isn't.

jarrell88
by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:55 PM

I will make my son try things but if he doesn't like it then he doesn't have to eat it...maybe that's why he is picky????

haileys-mama
by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:56 PM

1 bite of everything on your plate.  If she reaaaally hates it I try not to make it very often.  I have the pickiest child ever, so if she liked something I didnt, I would be SHOCKED.

stefvan
by Ruby Member on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:56 PM

I don't eat thinks I don't like so why should my kids.  That is hypocritical.  And, with my son's sensitive gag reflex, I don't push him to try new things - if he chooses to that is fine.   

MamiJaAyla
by Silver Member on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:56 PM

I require them to TRY things (even things I don't like)... which is pretty freq. as I don't ear red meat at ll and they doo.

In gen. I don't make them eat it... just taste it... excpet for veggies... broc. /carrots/beans are a no choice item (particularly b/c they go on and off with liking them)

AutymsMommy
by Ruby Member on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:57 PM

We have a two bite rule. If, after those two bites, Autym still doesn't care for dinner (or whatever meal we are having) then I will make her something else. I am aware that she has her own tastes and I respect that. I know that I wouldn't eat something that I didn't care for and I wouldn't take kindly to somebody forcing me to eat. That will only create an unhealthy relationship between the child and food.

I am a Private School sending, Vaccinating, Non spanking, Nightmare Cuddling, Dessert Giving, Homework Helping, Bedtime Kissing, Book Reading, Academic pushing Mother. I believe in the benefit of organized after school activities. I believe in spoiling my children. I believe that I have seen the village and I do not want it raising my child - I will do that, Thank You. I believe that a woman's place is in the home taking care of her house, children and husband. I am submissive and proud, my husband is head of my home. I am a proud, traditional Roman Catholic, as is my husband... Yes we are teaching our children that The Church is the only Church.               Aimee


 

gmswife
by on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:58 PM

I have my DD at least try stuff. Sometimes she'll be like oh I want more or she'll be like I still don't like it.lol

k_hall1784
by Ruby Member on Mar. 14, 2010 at 8:58 PM

I wouldn't force them to eat it, but I would make sure they at least tried it. Same thing goes for food I don't like. Just because I don't like it doesn't mean they won't.

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