P***ED OFF that DH pays that B**ch Support! That is OUR money!!!!
EEEEIIIIITTTTTTTT (annoying buzzer sound) Wrong answer, try again!
Look, if YOU married someone or are playing house with someone that has been married before.... you KNEW this was either GOING to happen or it was happening before you got involved with him. A man has a responsibility to SUPPORT the child(ren) and spouse depending on situation BEFORE he starts to support children YOU have together or supports YOUR butt. If you wanted to marry someone that was only financially responsible to YOU then YOU should have not become involved with a man that was married or had children before you. Point being... STFU! You look like a bitter jealous gold digger that wants MONEY MONEY MONEY all to herself and hates the fact that your DH pays or helps with his children or ex.
ESPECIALLY if you butt is sitting at HOME and you have this opinion! Get off your a$$ and work to make the money you feel you are missing out on. If you have never BEEN in the situation where you depend on the support and it is not only needed, but deserved then you only look like an ignorant person. Grow up and play role reversal for a moment. Be HUMAN and talk to a few single moms that either DEPEND on the support, have been screwed by their ex in some way OR that don't get a dime and ask him how they would feel or it would help to actually GET some help. Then STFU, because maybe then you'd realize that you CHOSE this path!
(before you assume I am IN either position, don't! this is simply of vent of what has been seen and heard in life and crawls up my skin like a ghost on halloween. i simply don't like it!)
here's the right answer.
when i was a single mom dealing with my ex and bullshit.. the last thing i was about to do was to date men with kids... and add that to my mess.
so knowing that the situation you describe wasn't for me... i avoided men with children. i was raising a special needs child alone... i wasn't going to make my life any harder than it already was.
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Thank goodness I am married to the father of my children and don't have to deal with all that b/s! Seems people would consider all that if/when they do divorce. Knowing full well, the children are what needs to come first, not some new wife/husband wanting into another relationship because of money.
I think some women only get pissed off because they know that money is not going to the kids, but rather the ex wife/gf is spending it on herself.
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on Mar. 15, 2010 at 7:28 AM