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UGGG!! If you have kids teach them some manners!

Posted by on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:21 PM
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 I babysit 3 boys. The youngest is one and is ok.  The other 2 are 5 and 4. These are the most disrespectful, misbehaved, and sassy mouth children I have ever met. They have no respect towards my children's toys. They have already broke two and even though the father said he would pay for it, he has gone back on that and said no. I told them they were not allowed in my son's room until he got home. I got sassed and said that I was mean and that my kids were not playing with them. I just told them to stop poking my children and the oldest said he could do what he wanted. I THINK NOT! What happened to manners?  I came home after a week away and watched them he day after I came back. The middle one looked at me and said, Your house is messy. Um yea, I was gone a week and dh worked all week. That is rude.




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TreQuansmomma
by Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:23 PM

see thats why im shocked when people look at me like im crazy when i make Tre' say excuse me. he knows his manners and he will use them dont see why adults think its weird. that dad really needs to teach his kids manners or it will only get worse as they get older.

rubyjro13
by on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:23 PM

 Hahaha kids are crazy yea I agree teach your kids manners, mine arent to bad, but if I know im going over someones house that is way ocd I will sit them down and explain this isnt mommies house or coles house you cant do this and you cant do that.

ronandamy1
by on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:23 PM

 do you have to babysit them?? I don't think I would if they were breaking my kids toys and the dad wasn't respectful enough to take care of it

KotaBaby
by Silver Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:23 PM

manners?? what's manners?? never heard of those! ;-)

yeah, i feel the same way with some children that i know. but kids can be brutally honest too!

Cavalrybaby02
by on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:24 PM

 Yeah I'm with you on that one. 

The great part about my kids is that while they might disrespect toys in our home, they are very polite and respectful in other people's homes.  :)

De_Chick
by Platinum Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:25 PM

I wouldn't continue to babysit them and I'd tell the parents why. Maybe they will realize they need to teach their children some manners if they are going to get along in the real world.

Cavalrybaby02
by on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:26 PM

 

Quoting TreQuansmomma:

see thats why im shocked when people look at me like im crazy when i make Tre' say excuse me. he knows his manners and he will use them dont see why adults think its weird. that dad really needs to teach his kids manners or it will only get worse as they get older.

 Last December my DD was "shopping" on the other side of the isle from me, at Children's Place at the outlet mall, and she said "excuse me" to a lady, who came over to tell me that she used her manners and I should be proud of her.  :)

lil_Army_Wife05
by Platinum Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:29 PM


Quoting De_Chick:

I wouldn't continue to babysit them and I'd tell the parents why. Maybe they will realize they need to teach their children some manners if they are going to get along in the real world.


magpie03
by Bronze Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:32 PM

 I babysit some children with the same manners (or lack of). Very aggravating. I see my kids picking up on those manners, though I work really hard to combat it without talking badly about the kids. I mean, it's not their fault they haven't been taught how to behave and talk to others. When I am with those kids, you can bet I don't put up with any crap. If they need to learn manners from me, so be it.

TreQuansmomma
by Member on Mar. 15, 2010 at 6:33 PM


Quoting Cavalrybaby02:

 

Quoting TreQuansmomma:

see thats why im shocked when people look at me like im crazy when i make Tre' say excuse me. he knows his manners and he will use them dont see why adults think its weird. that dad really needs to teach his kids manners or it will only get worse as they get older.

 Last December my DD was "shopping" on the other side of the isle from me, at Children's Place at the outlet mall, and she said "excuse me" to a lady, who came over to tell me that she used her manners and I should be proud of her.  :)

see thats what im aiming for. people just look at him and go o your alright lil man!!!! or he gets the aww what a cute baby and his cheeks pinched which he really hates lol. most people are impressed but u still get the weird people who go he doesnt have to say that or it doesnt matter. yes it does!!!! im tryin to teach him to be a man.


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