Am I wrong for being upset?

[goingbanannas]

Today my mom called and asked if she could borrow $300 for a biopsy on her breast well I said I had to talk to my hubby and she said okay.Well I called my hubby and asked him and he blew up about always loaning money to my mom and I go upset because she cant pay us back because she cant work due to her health.He just acts like he doesn't care you know.I guess I am really stressed out right now and I am not allowed to b*tch about anything at all.He doesnt like hearig it.Anyways he said he was not coming home what should I do now?

[Shylie]

 Hi :) Well without some back story, I couldn't tell you the decision you two have to make, but here's *hugs* and hope it works out.

[MamaBloom777]

Not coming home at all?  Or he's going to blow off some steam?  Do you guys have it to spare?  I don't get what the big deal is if you have it to lend.  Is there anyone else in the family that can help her if DH absolutely won't help her?  I'm so sorry :( 

[FDNYwife]

 Dont call your mom back yet.  I dont even really know what to say b/c my  DH would never say that, especially for a biopsy.  Good luck :(

[teri4lance]

Quoting Shylie:

 Hi :) Well without some back story, I couldn't tell you the decision you two have to make, but here's *hugs* and hope it works out.

this and he sounds like a big baby - not coming home bc he's miffed? good lawd

[Babysoul86]

Wow. Just from what I read it sounds like DH really over-reacted. It's not like your mom was asking because she needed cigarrettes or booze or something. This is her health and it's really important. As far as him not coming home I have no idea what to say to that. I guess just give him some time to cool off and then try talking to him again. Sorry you're so stressed, good luck!

[lil_Army_Wife05]

So what he is not coming home at all because you asked if it was okay to give your mom money? Wow...talk about being a big baby!

I tell you one thing, my husband ever tells me he isn't coming home because of me asking him for some money for whatever reason I WOULD LOCK HIM OUT!!

HAHAHA that is right, I would lock him out!!! Than he wouldn't have to worry about coming home he couldn't get in and i wouldn't answer his calls! Call me childish!

[MommaClark3]

Quoting Shylie:

 Hi :) Well without some back story, I couldn't tell you the decision you two have to make, but here's *hugs* and hope it works out.

[staceyjoy]

He's not coming home just because you called and asked for that?

 Sounds like there's more to the story here......

[Wendy_June]

Won't they bill your mom after they do the biopsy? Can she get on Medicare or AARP?

[dcdmattison03]

 Well his ass would have to be mad because if my mom needed it for something like that then she wouldn't have to ask twice...and not coming home? what is all that really about?

sorry you are going through that