If you're dh says " I want to have a threesome" how would you take that?

[ErikaM27]

What would you say to that? We were texting back and forth and out of no where he said I would want to have a threesome. I responded with a WTF? I said if you want some other p***** then go ahead and we're done. He said I'm just joking. I dont know but this bothers me?? Let it go???

[sati769leigh]

hubby and i talked about having a threesome. but decided that marriage vows are that. and that a threesome is not part of a marriage. but we dirty talk about it

[lvnmylif]

DH and I have already talked about our feeling on threesomes.  So if he ever brought it up we would be having a serious talk.

[ItsBethy_4180]

i would NOT be cool with that. We aren't like that so for him to bust out wiht something like that would be highly suspicious to me. If you had experimented with this kind of relationship then i would understand, but totally random? Were you talking about fantasies or anything? Like what the hell led up to him saying this? LOL.

[3xangel]

 idk. i would be like wtf too.. maybe let it go? isnt that almost every guy fantasy though? idk but heres a bump

[nemiller]

i'd tell him, "only if i get to pick the other person."  then i would pick the biggest dude i could find.

[dreamerinluv]

 Well if it were my hubby then he would be talking about threesome with another girl....and if that were the case then I would say "sure" but you can only LOOK....LOL...no touching.....now me actually going thru with it is another story....LOL  =)

[RandiJune]

 i wouldnmt let it go No...but i would have a talk with him...me and my SO have had plenty of talks about it...and i said yes as long as he follows "rules" that he and i agreed on...just try and be very very very open minded.....thats how i am...be very honest and truthful and tell him to do the same...maybe you can resolve this matter...

[JudeandLucy]

As far as my husband and I go - I'd be wondering what's going on. Simply because my husband says he never wants to be with anyone but me. So, that would indicate some kind of problem in our relationship.

[ErikaM27]

Quoting nemiller:

i'd tell him, "only if i get to pick the other person."  then i would pick the biggest dude i could find.

I just responded back to him since he said " Don't get mad I'm just joking" I said well if you want to have a threesome let me look for another guy. He hasn't written back.

[AMarineLovesMe]

I would tell him the only threesome he would be having and still be married to me would be him and his 2 hands.