ANother post got me wondering...how many people have felt like this
I miss the life I had before kids. But I wouldn't trade the life I have now for anything.
Hell no. lol
I was screaming that I wanted 6 kids starting at age 5. lol
I wish I had at least one more and hopefully will in a few years.
I want them, love them more than anything else in the world. However, I sometimes feel guilty for bringing them into this f'd up world that we live in.
All I ever wanted was kids. I wish I'd met and married my dh sooner and we'd started sooner, cause I could have had more. LOL. If I had the money I'd have my tubes fixed and I'd have another but one can pray those tubes magically regenerate....it does happen...LOL. But I am happy with my 3 kids...I'd not trade them for anything in this world.
In my case I had my son 5 days affter I turned 20 (gave birth that is) his father turned abusive and cheated when he was 8 mon old so I left him he has had nothing to do with son who is about to turn 5 I have also taken on 3 more kids a 6 year old a 4 year old and a 1 year old they are my SO's children. I love them all my so's kids have issues MAJOR emotional issues but they are good kids all in all and i love all of them and I love that we have custody of them. They may drive me nutz but i never EVER wish they were not around. I get very tired and overwhelmed sometimes. One major reason I have fibromalyaga.
What a horrible thing to say... wishing you didn't have kids. GEEZ. Get some birth control. Have sex responsibly or don't have it for pete's sake. How could you say such a thing and not feel like the worlds shittiest mother. I know I'd think you were the shittiest mother if I heard someone say it.
As crazy as I get through out the day, I would never say that. I am so full of love every day I would not have it any other way! I wish I was strong enough to continue fostering after I adopted, but 3 is goo for now. lol When they get bigger I will probably do it again. :0)
I've never wished that. I love my kids, they are my joy and my life.
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- gypsy_rose
on Mar. 17, 2010 at 8:53 AM