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I just filed. But Y is my heart in my stomach?

Posted by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 9:28 PM
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As those who saw my previos post, my DH attempted to have an affair. Not the first time I tell ya. Well he has been fighting for this to work. I just could not because of the repeat behavior. Well, he finally agreed to it and he made ME file online. So, I did it in his name. LOL Anyway, guess we will find out tomorrow if they will accept it and fax it to him and I for signatures. Sucks but I just know it is the right thing.





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mommyziegler
by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 9:30 PM

you can file for divorce online??are you serious!?

Mom_2princesses
by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 9:33 PM

If it is uncontested meaning both parties are not taking an attorney and you agree on everything 100% then yes.

ajswenson
by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 9:33 PM

 Sorry that you are in this situation...but yea, that's what I was wondering about - really, you can file on line with children involved???  **HUGS*** it's never easy.

Quoting mommyziegler:

you can file for divorce online??are you serious!?

 

mummaof2lilboys
by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 9:36 PM

hugs

No matter what leaving someone is not easy. Especially when kids are involved. Plus, a change can be hard. Keep your head up Momma. You'll come out on top!

Wife To Paul 5~2~08
Proud Mumma To Landon (12~26~07) And Nevyn (12~28~09)

HeatherMae55
by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 9:38 PM

My husband cheated and I wanted a divorce.  We filed online as well.  The paperwork got here today and I couldn't even look at it. 

LittleMomma13
by Platinum Member on Mar. 17, 2010 at 9:39 PM

I know its hard but whats harder? Divorcing him or living with a  cheater? We are all scared of change and the unknown. Good luck to you honey!

Mom_2princesses
by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 10:06 PM

exactly. This sucks but I know it is for the best.

Quoting LittleMomma13:

I know its hard but whats harder? Divorcing him or living with a  cheater? We are all scared of change and the unknown. Good luck to you honey!






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Mom_2princesses
by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 10:06 PM

How long did it take? It hurts so bad but I have to leave with dignity.

Quoting HeatherMae55:

My husband cheated and I wanted a divorce.  We filed online as well.  The paperwork got here today and I couldn't even look at it. 






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HeatherMae55
by on Mar. 17, 2010 at 10:08 PM

It took about a week and a half to be mailed after it was complete.

But, I agree.  Dignity is what I'm leaving with too.

Quoting Mom_2princesses:

How long did it take? It hurts so bad but I have to leave with dignity.

Quoting HeatherMae55:

My husband cheated and I wanted a divorce.  We filed online as well.  The paperwork got here today and I couldn't even look at it. 

 


Shy_Dia
by Gold Member on Mar. 17, 2010 at 10:09 PM

 what are the decisions on the divorce decree, like visitations, custody, finances, etc? is that decided or no? weird... but good for you momma! you deserve someone better and you'll find him one day. but for now- enjoy your single momma status. :-)

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