DH got a weird phone call at work *Posted Update*
*Update* I know some were looking for an update and hadn't done it yet, sorry. Well nothing ever came of the phone call. BUT... I found his ex on Facebook and we found a common friend so he befriended her. Once he brefriended her, his ex's profile opened wide up, her wall, pics, everything. While looking at her pics I found 2 of his daughter so she still has her. His daughter looks just like him and she's beautiful. Well she learned that he was on Facebook so she changed her privacy settings. Another old friend had found DH on FB as well so they started chatting about his ex and his daughter. She told the other friend and the other friend told his ex and now she has completely blocked him, can't find her through search or on any friend's list under his profile but I can find her under mine. A guy at work gave DH a name of a good lawyer here and he is going to go talk to her tomorrow. His daughter has been the only thing on his mind, especially now that he has seen a pic of her (we saved the pics to our computers, don't bash for that) and wants her in his life so bad that he's starting to forget about me and DS a bit. I am an emotional wreck right now as I am 3 days late and been cramping all day w/o no AF. UGH!!! Anways, thats all we know for now. Thanks for all your responses and stuff. =0)
My DH had a very weird night at work, one of the many weird things that happened was a phone call. He thought it was me since I have been having a bad night with Ds. Well it was a man who just asked him if his name was so and so and then asked if he knew this girl from his past, which happens to be his ex gf that he supposedly had a daughter with. I say supposedly because she never allowed him to see her nor talk to him. He found out she was pregnant through some other friends because he moved to another state shortly after they broke up. He had sent her money and stuff and she would send it back to him. Anyways, he almost hit the floor when he heard her name on the phone. The last time he tried to talk to her was in 2001. Very weird and we don't know what to make of it.
I must be missing something but I am not seeing where this phone call is abnormal? It seems like she might be trying to get a hold of him and may have been afraid to ask herself.
Quoting allycally:PI
which totally goes with what I was saying lol
She's never tried to get a hold of him before. In fact she didn't know where he is living or where he works. She's wanted nothing to do with him and in the past has tried to locate her with no avail. We think it might be a PI.
It just came out of the blue.
maybe something happened to her (heaven forbid) and they are trying to find anyone who knew her or had ties with her???? since they might have a kid together???!!! you never know..did they leave a call back number?? If so I would call, guilt would eat me alive not knowing if something might be wrong....???
Maybe she came to her senses and wanted the daughter to get to know her dad?
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No callback number, after the guy asked the two questions all he said was "thats all I need" and hung up. When he got home I said either something happened to his ex, the daughter or she wants child support now (which doesn't bother me, should take care of the kid). The daughter is 12 years old now and DH has never had any contact with her whatsoever, not his choosing. She kept the girl from him. It's definitely gonna be on our minds until we know what is going on.
Quoting DomesticDoll:maybe something happened to her (heaven forbid) and they are trying to find anyone who knew her or had ties with her???? since they might have a kid together???!!! you never know..did they leave a call back number?? If so I would call, guilt would eat me alive not knowing if something might be wrong....???
If we're only that lucky, he's been wanting her in his life since day 1, she's 12 now.
Quoting dusky_rose:Maybe she came to her senses and wanted the daughter to get to know her dad?
Type in the mother's name into google and see if anyting comes up from like a local paper. Then type in the little girl's name.
We tried that but we also don't even know the daughter's name?
Quoting OneToughMami:Type in the mother's name into google and see if anyting comes up from like a local paper. Then type in the little girl's name.
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on Mar. 19, 2010 at 3:49 AM