What would you do if your hubby created a CM acct?
Ive been upset w/ my husband lately for turning down a chance to come home from Iraq early.. I havent talked to him much bcuz, ive been so upset about this.. So the other day I got a friend request from a "girl" who says she's also an army wife, in some of the same groups, blah blah blah.. I accept the request and "she" messages me.. "She" starts off by saying by husband is deploying in July, any advice? So, being the nice person that I am, I give her a little advice about deployments.. :)
After a few days, the conversation gets to me and my husband and how he is in Iraq.. Long story short, she says when will he be back and I said well, he couldve came home in June but he chose to stay til August. I said how upset I was and she starts saying stuff like " Id rather my husband want to provide than not provide" "Maybe he wants to save up for a house", You should forgive him and know that he's just doing what HE feels is right for the family"..
He types a certain way.. The same as this "girl" certain acronyms etc..
Oh and did I mention I am the ONLY friend on "her" profile?
What do you think ladies??
Proud Infantry Army wife
Could be coincidence, could be your husband asking for forgiveness... keep it going and see what you can find out, that's my best advice.
I have had 4 pregnancies. I have only 1 living child, and he lives far away from me. I have had 2 miscarriages and a baby girl who died of SIDS at 16 days old. It would be entirely too easy for me to be angry with the world, angry with myself, angry with God---whatever God may be. Sometimes I do wonder if there is such a thing as "karma", and what I must have done to disrupt the ebb and flow. Sometimes I do wonder why God seems like a cruel child holding a magnifying glass over an ant hill. Then I stop and realize "it is what it is", and my children must have a bigger purpose in this universe than to pet my emotions with their physical presence.
---Heidi A. Durst Barbusi
Lol, sorry I've read your other posts, but I think it would be hilarious if it was your husband. I'd start making up ridiculous stuff like "Today I was bored and so I dyed my hair pink". I think it's probably him if you think it is. You could really use this situation to your advantage... LOL.
Wow, he either loves you completely, OR he's so insecure he's trying to spy on you by using an alias. Hopes it's LOVE!
thats so awesome!!!!!!!!!! i would do that for sure. like i cant come to tell my husband i gained 60lbs while he was away and im so depressed to purk myself up i dyed my hair my fav color hahahahahahahahahaha
Quoting mommy_lisa25:
Lol, sorry I've read your other posts, but I think it would be hilarious if it was your husband. I'd start making up ridiculous stuff like "Today I was bored and so I dyed my hair pink". I think it's probably him if you think it is. You could really use this situation to your advantage... LOL.
I can see what he's trying to do but it would still creep me the hell out. You guys are married, you should be able to just talk (or e-mail in your case) to each other. I'd also feel like he was stalking me or something which is just not right (usually the stalking spouse is in fact the one with something to hide). Knowing me I'd probably be a smart ass and call him out on it somehow whether it be a PM or me calling him his screen name over the phone or something. When he gets back you guys should definitely get some counseling.
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- charliesgirl523
on Mar. 19, 2010 at 4:32 PM