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OMG ARE YOU FREAKING SERIOUS!!!!!!

Posted by on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:01 PM
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After not seeing his kids but like 5 to 6 times a year for the past 4 years and barely paying child support or evening calling to say hey how are you or Happy Birthday I Love You  the sperm donor of a father to my wonderful kids calls and wants me to drop his child support through the court system He has payed nothing since October of 2009 and now this. Is he crazy or am I having a nightmare.  He has court next friday and wants me to go so i can drop it.  he says that it would be easier if he pays it through me instead of them.  what would you do?

Posted by on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:01 PM
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mousehouser
by on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:03 PM

I would take him for as much as I can, sorry! I would not drop child support, no way!

jessigarrett
by Gold Member on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:03 PM

NO WAY WOULD I DROP IT IF YOU DO HE IS NO LONGER LEAGALLY BOUND TO PAY

pearee
by on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:03 PM

 um negative.. lol If he doesn't pay the system who will enforce even if it means jail.. and he doesn't pay that what in the world would make a person think he would actually pay you? Horrible idea, don't go through with it.

mommyto32007
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:03 PM

DON"T do it!! if he isn't paying you now what makes you think he'll pay you on his own. if i were you i would not drop it

brittany21921
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:04 PM

why havent you turned him in for not paying his child support?

Bekah062205
by on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:05 PM

no way would i drop it...and no way would i believe he would pay me without someone like the courts breathing down his neck. If you ever wanna get paid again, then dont drop it.

MsDean
by Geraldine on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:05 PM

 

Quoting mommyto32007:

DON"T do it!! if he isn't paying you now what makes you think he'll pay you on his own. if i were you i would not drop it

 

Me in a nutshell: *Married* *love reading* *hate going to theaters* *wine drinker* *SAHM*  *sometimes call my kids by the wrong name* *mom of 3 brats*

cinemagirl
by on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:05 PM

Not on your life!! If he really isnt paying now why on earth would he do it when he wasnt forced by the state to??? I think its crazy he thinks you would let him. DONT!!!!

.MommyEast.
by Ryan&Me+3=♥ on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:05 PM

no. & i dont know about your state but in mine if u drop it, u can't go back & change your mind in a year or two. proceed with caution.. 

Susan262
by Gold Member on Mar. 19, 2010 at 10:06 PM

Just tell him no. Not gonna do it.

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