I'll try not to make this too long but if you have questions just let me know. A friend of DH, called me last week. This friend "R" started telling me about all of the things that DH has done that he knows I wouldn't like. Then he asked me to be friends with him and not tell DH or his wife about us talking. I didn't like that idea and told DH about the conversation. Well DH doesn't seem to care. I feel like R is trying to start something more than a friendship with me and so does DH. I told DH that R isn't a good friend and he should cut ties with him, but DH still talks to him.
So I guess my questions are:
1 Does that sound to you like R is trying to cause problems with me and DH?
2 Does it sound like R is trying to get "with" me
3 Do you think DH should stay away from R
The extent of American ignorance continues to amaze me
Quoting lex07:
Yea i think "R" wants in your pants. Hes obvioulsy trying to push you away from your husband. And yes DH should stay away from him....And im just curious...What kind of stuff did he tell you?
He told me about an emotional affair DH had (which I already knew about). Also, that DH was drinking with him while I was at work a few times, (something I care very little about but annoyed me none the less) And he told me all of the mean things DH has said to him while venting about me.
The extent of American ignorance continues to amaze me
Quoting PhotoMama88:
Well if your DH also thinks his "friend" R is trying to have an affair with you, why is he still talking to him? Does he not care if you cheat?
I don't understand that either. I know that DH would leave me if I cheated on him but I also know that he trusts me not to.
The extent of American ignorance continues to amaze me
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- mom2mandjax
on Mar. 21, 2010 at 3:39 PM