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Am I a Sex Addict? (May be TMI for some)

Posted by on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:14 PM
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Another post got me thinking about this.  Would you consider me a sex addict?  It's been over a week actually I think it's been closer to two weeks since my bf and I have done anything and I'm absolutely losing my mind!  We don't live together, I'm sure if we lived together it would be better but between him getting pnemonia and then us just being tired and then kids we just haven't had the opportunity to do anything.  Last Tuesday and Wednesday we had the opprotunity but we were doing everything else like getting errands done and he just got a new car on Wed so new car trumped sex. LOL!!  (That was meant as a joke)  But I swear if we go a week or more without anything I start to feel very "lonely" and frisky I might add.  I could seriously do it every single day, if not more than once a day, I just love it!!  It's more than just a physical thing, I love the connection between us during that and while I feel connected to him all the time there is a different connection when we make love that I just love!!  I just love having sex with him.  I feel like such a guy sometimes because I hear some of my friends complain because their husbands want it so much and all I can think of is, I would kill for that! lol.  Now  my bf is wonderful and he loves it as much as I do but he tends to be tired when I'm not.  Like he works all day so he's tired when he comes home especially if the day has been stressful but me on the other hand...Sex would relax me!! LOL!! 

I'm not cheating though and would never ever think of cheating on him.  I would rather go without or use a "toy" than to cheat on him.  So I was just wondering if most would consider me an addict or not.  Oh I also don't look at porn, the closest I get to porn is The Girls Next Door. lol.


Posted by on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:14 PM
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college.mom
by Gold Member on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:23 PM

 I am a sex addict we do it 3-5 times a day.  I would say you could be borderline addicted. 

nikitaboom
by on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:25 PM

Ummmmm no. You just sound like someone who enjoys sex and wants to have alot of it. Nothing wrong with that.

BamaMom26
by on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:26 PM

Oh you suck!! lol.  The weekends I stay over there we probably get to do it 2 times a day.  I'm so ready for this weekend!! LOL!! 

Quoting college.mom:

 I am a sex addict we do it 3-5 times a day.  I would say you could be borderline addicted. 



BamaMom26
by on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:27 PM

Thanks!! :-)  I've actually wondered about this for awhile.  I would understand if I was cheating a lot being called an addict but my version doesn't seem all that bad. lol.

Quoting nikitaboom:

Ummmmm no. You just sound like someone who enjoys sex and wants to have alot of it. Nothing wrong with that.



college.mom
by Gold Member on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:27 PM

It helps that I married a sex addict though, there are days when he wants it 8+ times, it gets exhausting but its also worth it. 

Quoting BamaMom26:

Oh you suck!! lol.  The weekends I stay over there we probably get to do it 2 times a day.  I'm so ready for this weekend!! LOL!! 

Quoting college.mom:

 I am a sex addict we do it 3-5 times a day.  I would say you could be borderline addicted. 


 

rona503
by Silver Member on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:27 PM

 my hubby wish i was

ByHimForHim
by on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:27 PM

It depends on your age and hormones mostly.  When I am pregnant, I get crazy!  But, it is part of pregnancy.  Once the baby comes out, I'm good to go for....ever LOL!  I think women peek in their early- mid twenties (I think).  But, just because you may have a higher than "normal" sex drive doesn't make you an addict.  Now, college.mom....you just may be ; )  I couldn't imagine that much a week let alone a day.

_Bamaborn_
by on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:28 PM

I think your a just hot for your SO.

ToraMay
by on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:28 PM

 If you're a sex addict, I am.. I don't consider myself one. DH thinks I am though :)

college.mom
by Gold Member on Mar. 21, 2010 at 4:29 PM

Hahah, I am the same way, when I am pregnant, I cannot get enough, I am dying by the end of the six week dry period though lol. 

Quoting ByHimForHim:

It depends on your age and hormones mostly.  When I am pregnant, I get crazy!  But, it is part of pregnancy.  Once the baby comes out, I'm good to go for....ever LOL!  I think women peek in their early- mid twenties (I think).  But, just because you may have a higher than "normal" sex drive doesn't make you an addict.  Now, college.mom....you just may be ; )  I couldn't imagine that much a week let alone a day.

 

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