My husband has been in the hospital for almost 2 weeks, I've been checking his phone periodically and relaying the messages to him. Well, I just found out today that he has been cheating on me. He told the woman that he and I had dated and I got pregnant when I cheated on him but was living with him cause my parents kicked me out. I'm so upset and hurt, I don't know what to do with myself. As soon as this baby is born I'm filing for divorce. There's no reason for me to continue to put with his lies, especially since I forgave him for cheating on me once. Never again will I ever forgive anyone for cheating on me.
When I went to visit him the first time at the hospital they gave me his keys so I have his house keys. I won't be letting him back in. I've tried to call him twice, the first time he wouldn't come to the phone, the next time he came to the phone just to tell me he's in a meeting and then hung up on me. He's in a mental health unit for his PTSD issues so it's not like a regular hospital. But I'm thinking that when I do talk to him that I'm going to ask him if he wants the baby to have his last name and when he asks why I would ask that I plan on telling him that since I cheated and the baby isn't his then there's no reason for the baby to have his last name.
im sorry hun...i wouldnt wait until the baby is born...it could take a while, so i would start the proceedings now
damn that sucks I am really sorry. I wish some men would stop being pigs or at least be the guy that never settles down. My fiance and I are both on the same page on this one. We think ok so you aren't happy then leave then find someone else not wait for that someone then leave. honestly though I think you should leave him now.
oh ok....have you spoken to him about this?
Quoting navywifelydia:
In WA state if the woman is pregnant they won't proceed with the divorce until the baby is born. So even if I filed now they won't do anything till sometime in June.
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- navywifelydia
on Mar. 21, 2010 at 6:57 PM