Pornographic Picture Messages. Edit

[luvnmyfam13]

 Does your husband receive them from his friends?

Do you think the women in the pictures are hotter than you?

Do the texts included with the pictures say things like "Your Welcome." "I heard you like them big." "Enjoy."?

Do you have low self esteem?

Do you get upset when you find out about them?

Does your husband lock them so he can keep them and "send them to his friends"?

Does your husband not understand why your feelings are hurt?

Does he refuse to delete them from his phone?

Does he lock his phone?

Does he refuse to ask his friends not to send these types of messages to him?

 

I don't know what happened to me. I used to love porn. I used to send him the ones that I got just like some of you ladies that posted already. We used to watch porn together. We made our own porn. But now I can't help but feel upset and hurt by it. I think its not so much the pictures themselves but the text that comes with it. The worst one I thought was Your Welcome. I used to be so proud of my body. Now I'm not. Neither is he. He says if I get down to my weight that I was at 18 years old. He'd get back to his 30 year old weight.

 

[ItsBethy_4180]

no.

[vintage_pearl4]

Um...no.  My husband doesn't get those messages.  I'm guessing your husband does?  I would be bothered by it but I probably wouldn't have to say anything.  My husband would delete them and tell the person to stop sending them.

 

 

[McKs0820]

His friends know better. Yes most of them women are hotter then me. SO has never gotten any so cant answer 3rd question. I wouldnt say my self esteem is low but its alot lower since I had the baby. If I found out he had them I would be mad. My SO wouldn't keep them he would delete it as soon as possible because he knows I'd flip. He doesn't understand it but he tries to respect it.

[MommynMonster]

Quoting luvnmyfam13:

 Does your husband receive them from his friends?Yep, me included

Do you think the women in the pictures are hotter than you? Probably

Do the texts included with the pictures say things like "Your Welcome." "I heard you like them big." "Enjoy."? Nope

Do you have low self esteem? Nope

Do you get upset when you find out about them? why would I?

Does your husband lock them so he can keep them and "send them to his friends"? Dunno

Does your husband not understand why your feelings are hurt? they aren't hurt

Does he refuse to delete them from his phone? No because I dont ask him to delete them

Does he lock his phone? No

Does he refuse to ask his friends not to send these types of messages to him? No

 

[KokoJones]

 Does your husband receive them from his friends? not very often, but occasionally one will come thru

Do you think the women in the pictures are hotter than you? sometimes

Do the texts included with the pictures say things like "Your Welcome." "I heard you like them big." "Enjoy."? they include msgs sometimes... sometimes they are just forwarded pix

Do you have low self esteem? not really

Do you get upset when you find out about them? nope

Does your husband lock them so he can keep them and "send them to his friends"? sometimes if it is a good one with a joke or something

Does your husband not understand why your feelings are hurt? my feelings don't get hurt but if they did i am sure he would understand if i said something

Does he refuse to delete them from his phone? no he would if i asked

Does he lock his phone? nope and he lets me have free range over it cuz he has a camera phone and i don't so i use his a lot of the time when i wanna snap a quick pic of the kids or somethin

Does he refuse to ask his friends not to send these types of messages to him?

[McKs0820]

And the reason why I say the women are hotter then me is because I do get sent these messages.

[Mazie0723]

My hubby doesn't have friends that do that.. But even if he did it wouldn't bother me.. I have 4 children from him so he obviously likes the way my body is.. I also don't struggle with self esteem issues.. And if my DH locked his phone I would be worried something was going on.. Sounds like you have some issues going on in your marriage. Counseling would be good. 

[nemiller]

my husband had one friend in particular that used to send stuff like this.  he told the guy to stop the day it went from dirty jokes to pictures of vaginas.

[sati769leigh]

My husband would never lock his phone or hide anything from me. I could care less if he got porno messages

[krazymom2k03]

 Does your husband receive them from his friends?  yes

Do you think the women in the pictures are hotter than you?  some

Do the texts included with the pictures say things like "Your Welcome." "I heard you like them big." "Enjoy."?  yes

Do you have low self esteem? no

Do you get upset when you find out about them? no

Does your husband lock them so he can keep them and "send them to his friends"? no

Does your husband not understand why your feelings are hurt?  i do not care  if he gets  adult pics on his phone

Does he refuse to delete them from his phone? no

Does he lock his phone? no

Does he refuse to ask his friends not to send these types of messages to him? nope i get the adult pics too it's no big deal