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would you wanna know why?

Posted by on Mar. 22, 2010 at 2:29 AM
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 if you found out that your grandchild-- who you've never seen, havent talked to and have no relationship with at all- had surgery, would you want to know the reason why?

if the relationship didnt exist b/c of you, do you think you DESERVE to know why? the mom of the grandchild tried her hardest to get a relationship between grandmother/grandchild- but you refused in every attempt, do you feel you deserve to know?




21 year old single mom of a 4 year old boy. Not sure exactly what kind of mom I am, but I get a chance to better myself everyday. My biggest goal for 2010 is to break out of my shell.

~~~ I try to take one day at a time, but sometimes several days attack me at once.
Posted by on Mar. 22, 2010 at 2:29 AM
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lvnmylif
by on Mar. 22, 2010 at 2:39 AM

NO.  If I refused to have a relationship I actually wouldn't care. 

insomniacmom266
by on Mar. 22, 2010 at 2:40 AM

this if i didnt have a relationship i really dont think i would care but im not sure why i wiouldnt have a relationship

Quoting lvnmylif:

NO.  If I refused to have a relationship I actually wouldn't care. 


If you can read this Thank a teacher!

Smile :) Your mom didn't abort you.

If its not a baby then how are you pregnant?

Shy_Dia
by Gold Member on Mar. 22, 2010 at 2:43 AM

 it's for different reasons-- i want to say cuz she's stupid and selfish.. (<-- thats just bitterness coming out tho)... its also cuz she bows down to the BD of the said grandchild... which BD said to never talk to them and she obeyed what her son said and never gained that relationship with the grandchild... and even now- still doesnt want the relationship, but demands to know whats going on with said grandchild

Quoting insomniacmom266:

this if i didnt have a relationship i really dont think i would care but im not sure why i wiouldnt have a relationship

Quoting lvnmylif:

NO.  If I refused to have a relationship I actually wouldn't care. 

 

 




21 year old single mom of a 4 year old boy. Not sure exactly what kind of mom I am, but I get a chance to better myself everyday. My biggest goal for 2010 is to break out of my shell.

~~~ I try to take one day at a time, but sometimes several days attack me at once.
Shy_Dia
by Gold Member on Mar. 22, 2010 at 10:31 AM

 this was written late last night, so i'm bumping for the morning moms.

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